{"id":3548,"date":"2017-04-28T10:59:53","date_gmt":"2017-04-28T08:59:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=3548"},"modified":"2024-11-15T12:37:54","modified_gmt":"2024-11-15T10:37:54","slug":"koha-per-te-krijuar-kujtime-te-reja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/koha-per-te-krijuar-kujtime-te-reja\/","title":{"rendered":"Koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar kujtime t\u00eb reja"},"content":{"rendered":"
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K\u00ebto dite u vura n\u00eb pozit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur fillova t\u00eb shkruaj p\u00ebr normalizimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve mes shqiptar\u00ebve dhe serb\u00ebve n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Q\u00ebndrova me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra para kompjuterit me gishtat q\u00eb sapo shtypnin fjal\u00ebt i shlyeja prap\u00eb. Nuk doja t\u00eb shkruaja p\u00ebr Murin, Ur\u00ebn, Trenin apo Asociacionin, jo p\u00ebr munges\u00eb informatash por sepse jan\u00eb tema q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb na ndajn\u00eb se na bashkojn\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Duke u menduar gj\u00ebr\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, qindra kujtime dhe mendime m\u00eb v\u00ebrshuan, por asnj\u00eb nga to nuk ishte \u201cnormale\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb mendoja, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb bindesha se un\u00eb nuk i njoh serb\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs. Nuk e di ku i pijn\u00eb kafet e m\u00ebngjesit dhe birrat e mbr\u00ebmjes. Nuk e di n\u00ebse ata kan\u00eb problemet e p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb sigurimit t\u00eb mir\u00ebqenies, n\u00ebse kan\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe paguajn\u00eb kredi, n\u00ebse arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb paguajn\u00eb faturat n\u00eb fund t\u00eb muajit, n\u00ebse rrijn\u00eb nat\u00ebn zgjuar n\u00eb shtrat duke menduar si t\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb financat p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkolluar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Serb\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs ende vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt p\u00ebr mua. Ata m\u00eb shum\u00eb i shoh si problem q\u00eb nuk zgjidhet, si Veri i Kosov\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk e marrim dot, si Ur\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kalohet, si Mur q\u00eb s\u2019kap\u00ebrcehet, si Tren q\u00eb nuk l\u00ebviz, si Asociacion q\u00eb t\u00eb ndan, si List\u00eb Serbe q\u00eb s\u2019bashk\u00ebpunon.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb narrativi q\u00eb i shoq\u00ebron serb\u00ebt lokal. N\u00eb syt\u00eb tan\u00eb ata jan\u00eb shteti serb, dhe jo kojshit\u00eb tan\u00eb q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb m\u00ebtan\u00eb ur\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb mesin ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre kujtimeve, un\u00eb mbaj kujtime tjera p\u00ebr serb\u00ebt. Q\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb bodrum derisa granatat varrosnin sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb, ecja n\u00ebp\u00ebr plumba p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar kok\u00ebn, lot\u00ebt n\u00eb syt\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb nuk na mbronin dot dhe p\u00ebrjetimin e vrasjes 10 metra larg t\u00eb civil\u00ebve jan\u00eb ngulitur thell\u00eb n\u00eb kujtimet e mia. Frika dhe tmerri q\u00eb kam p\u00ebrjetuar shpesh m\u00eb djersitin nat\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb prejn\u00eb gjumin n\u00eb mes.<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u00ebto kujtime jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta\u00a0dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe ato i kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar shum\u00eb qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe serb\u00ebt.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb u mendova t\u00eb shlyej gjith\u00eb shkrimin dhe ta shtyj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, vendosa se kjo nuk mund t\u00eb ishte p\u00ebrgjigja q\u00eb kam un\u00eb. E mendova se si ky do t\u00eb ishte refuzim p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me nj\u00eb problem shoq\u00ebror me t\u00eb cilin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb merren dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e shtyjn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pas 17 viteve t\u00eb mohimit t\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00ebrit tjetrit, mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb koha q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb kujtime t\u00eb reja.<\/span><\/p>\n

Koha p\u00ebr pranim dhe ndryshim<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb. Trek\u00ebnd\u00ebzimi i problemeve dhe marrja e pozicioneve q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb dalim mir\u00eb n\u00eb sondazhe nuk na ndihmon t\u00eb zgjidhim problemet tona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Treni, Muri, Ura, Asociacioni, Ushtria, Gjykata etj, jane tema reale. Ato jane ekzistente dhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe duhet t\u00eb perballemi me to. Ato nuk jan\u00eb tema artificiale, siq \u00ebsht\u00eb argumentuar\u00a0k\u00ebtu<\/a>\u00a0dhe sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb i injorojm\u00eb aq m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha b\u00ebhen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Secila nga k\u00ebto tema jan\u00eb shkaktuar jo sepe qytetar\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb padijsh\u00ebm, por sepse elitat dhe qytetar\u00ebt nuk kan\u00eb pranuar ndryshimin. Mendimi kritik eshte qen\u00ebsor per ndryshim,\u00a0argumentuar shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm k\u00ebtu nga Jovana,<\/a>\u00a0por mendimi kritik \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb nacionalizmit dhe ekstremizmit ku vet\u00ebm z\u00ebrat ekstrem b\u00ebjn\u00eb jehon\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pjes\u00eb e problemit jan\u00eb edhe kujtimet q\u00eb un\u00eb i ndava n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shkrim e q\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb fraksion i vog\u00ebl i kujtimeve t\u00eb mia, e mund t\u00eb imagjinoni se ato jan\u00eb nj\u00eb fraksion tejet i vog\u00ebl n\u00eb krahasim me vuajtjet q\u00eb i kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar qytetar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar s\u00eb pari duhet t\u00eb distancohemi nga veprimet q\u00eb qartazi na ndajn\u00eb me nj\u00ebri tjetrin. Shqiptar\u00ebt dhe serb\u00ebt n\u00eb Ballkan mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen gjerman\u00ebt dhe francez\u00ebt e rinj q\u00eb vendosin t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb kujtime t\u00eb reja t\u00eb cilat i lidhin me nj\u00ebri tjetrin.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb elitave t\u00eb guximshme q\u00eb marrin p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr ndryshimin, i takon popullit q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. P\u00ebrkrahja e madhe e establishmentit n\u00eb Serbi nga serb\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs, q\u00eb propagon se Kosova \u00ebsht\u00eb Serbi, se krimet dhe masakrat nuk kan\u00eb ndodhur, se pastrimi etnik dhe djegia e sht\u00ebpive, dhunimi i grave e burrave, dhe varrezat masive nuk kan\u00eb ndodhur, nuk kontribuon n\u00eb normalizimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve. Nj\u00ebjt\u00eb nuk kontribuon as k\u00ebrkesa e disa shqiptar\u00ebve t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta zhb\u00ebr\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr ta bashkuar at\u00eb me Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb. K\u00ebto ide jan\u00eb t\u00eb kaluara dhe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nxitjes s\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunimit nd\u00ebretnik, ato thellojn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb tej ndarjen. Normalizimi nuk mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00ebse jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb vet\u00ebmohim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne mund t\u00eb mos pajtohemi me shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, por ne sigurisht mund t\u00eb pajtohemi q\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb nga \u00e7do etni duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb barabarta; se problemet e Markos n\u00eb Veri t\u00eb Mitrovic\u00ebs nuk jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb ndryshme sa problemet e Bashkimt n\u00eb Han t\u00eb Elezit. T\u00eb dyt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb paguajn\u00eb faturat n\u00eb fund t\u00eb muajit, t\u00eb rrisin dhe shkollojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb paqe dhe siguri dhe t\u00eb sigurohen se do t\u00eb pensionohen me dinjitet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Idet\u00eb se si t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb zgjidhje mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe t\u00eb ndryshme, por e ardhmja \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.\u00a0Insistim<\/a>i se temat q\u00eb prekin nj\u00eb komunitet jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme se ato q\u00eb i takojn\u00eb nj\u00eb komuniteti tjet\u00ebr nuk q\u00ebndrojne. N\u00eb fakt ky \u00ebsht\u00eb thelbi i problemit. Insistimi se temat q\u00eb na interesojn\u00eb ne jane reale; se dikush tjet\u00ebr i ka fajet p\u00ebr problemet tona; d\u00ebshtimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb problemet e tjetrit si probleme t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e k\u00ebsaj gjenerate t\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve dhe serb\u00ebve q\u00eb t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb kujtime t\u00eb reja, t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb bazuara n\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptim dhe mir\u00ebbesim, n\u00eb sinqeritet dhe p\u00ebrkushtim, n\u00eb dhembshuri dhe dashuri.<\/span><\/p>\n

Koha \u00ebsht\u00eb tash. Ne nuk mund t\u00eb presim q\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne jemi ata q\u00eb kemi pritur.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

K\u00ebto dite u vura n\u00eb pozit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur fillova t\u00eb shkruaj p\u00ebr normalizimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve mes shqiptar\u00ebve dhe serb\u00ebve n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Q\u00ebndrova me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra para kompjuterit me gishtat q\u00eb sapo shtypnin fjal\u00ebt i shlyeja prap\u00eb. Nuk doja t\u00eb shkruaja p\u00ebr Murin, Ur\u00ebn, Trenin apo Asociacionin, jo p\u00ebr munges\u00eb informatash por sepse jan\u00eb […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":122,"featured_media":9690,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1236,664,12],"ppma_author":[147],"class_list":["post-3548","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-kosove-serbi","tag-kosovo","tag-serbia"],"authors":[{"term_id":147,"user_id":122,"is_guest":0,"slug":"jeton-zulfaj","display_name":"Jeton Zulfaj","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/download-13-1.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/download-13-1.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Zulfaj","first_name":"Jeton","description":"Autori \u00ebsht\u00eb ish-k\u00ebshilltar politik dhe p\u00ebr \u00c7\u00ebshtje Evropiane i ish-kryeministrit t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, Albin Kurti."}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/122"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3548"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10372,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3548\/revisions\/10372"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9690"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3548"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=3548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}