{"id":3631,"date":"2017-07-21T11:38:00","date_gmt":"2017-07-21T09:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=3631"},"modified":"2024-10-18T14:16:29","modified_gmt":"2024-10-18T12:16:29","slug":"komunikim-qe-na-bashkon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/komunikim-qe-na-bashkon\/","title":{"rendered":"Komunikim q\u00eb na bashkon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-up\">\n<h3>Komunikim q\u00eb na bashkon<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>Edhepse ne ishim n\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dikur, ishim t\u00eb vetmuar. K\u00ebt\u00eb vetmi e kemi p\u00ebrjetuar deri n\u00eb palc\u00eb. Shumica e mbajm\u00eb mend at\u00eb si na g\u00ebrryente p\u00ebrbrenda si\u00a0lum\u00eb i rr\u00ebmbyesh\u00ebm q\u00eb g\u00ebrryen shtratin e tij. Shp\u00ebrfillja, si gjendje dhe aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr si realitet n\u00eb raport me tjetrin, krijon nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb m\u00ebrie, xhelozie. Mir\u00ebpo, kur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes futet edhe destruktiviteti politik, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo ndjenj\u00eb kalon leht\u00ebsisht n\u00eb urrejtje, sepse tanim\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb politika ajo q\u00eb menaxhon\u00a0me ndjenjat tona.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb situata t\u00eb tilla, politika nuk \u00e7an kok\u00ebn se \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb njeriu, ndjenjat njer\u00ebzore, e njer\u00ebzishmja. Madje n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste politika pothuajse gjithher\u00eb manipulon me ato ndjenja. Lirisht mund t\u00eb thuhet sepse k\u00ebshtu ka ndodhur edhe n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn), se t\u2019i l\u00ebsh ndjenjat njer\u00ebzore n\u00eb duart e politik\u00ebs, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo dometh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u2019i vet\u00ebdor\u00ebzohesh manipulimit. Mbase kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb nga ato marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb ka kontribuuar q\u00eb ne, shqiptar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs\u00a0dhe serb\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs, t\u00eb jemi kaq shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ndajm\u00eb vendin e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn, ajrin e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, por mendimet p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin i kemi krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ndryshme dhe kjo, jo pse ne ishim ose u b\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, por qe politika ajo q\u00eb na mbolli k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. Fundja pse do t\u00eb ishim kaq t\u00eb armiq\u00ebsuar mes vete po mos t\u00eb na udh\u00ebhiqte vesi i keq i politik\u00ebs. Sigurisht se n\u00eb normalizimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve shqiptaro-serbe k\u00ebrkimi i t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs nuk duhet par\u00eb si nj\u00eb tendenc\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon alibi p\u00ebr t\u2019iu revanshuar nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, por si nj\u00eb akt vet\u00ebp\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie, si nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb na fut n\u00eb nj\u00eb spirale t\u00eb komunikimit t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr\/rreth nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta komunikimi n\u00eb mes nesh p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb gjest i p\u00ebrdit\u00ebsuar n\u00eb avansimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies son\u00eb. Prandaj, nj\u00eb deficit i till\u00eb komunikimi vet\u00ebm sa e rrit\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn p\u00ebr keqkuptime n\u00eb mes vete. P\u00ebr ta vendosur nj\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie normale komunikuese t\u00eb dyja komunitetet (dhe jo vet\u00ebm) duhet q\u00eb s\u00eb pari ta qart\u00ebsojm\u00eb raportin me veten. Nj\u00eb qart\u00ebsim i till\u00eb, i sinqert\u00eb me vet\u00ebn, i hap rrug\u00eb komunikimit normal edhe me tjetrin.<\/p>\n<p>Njeriu nuk zgjedh nacionalitetin, seksin a orientimin,\u00a0madje njeriu nuk zgjedh as q\u00eb t\u00eb lind\u00eb fare. Dhe pik\u00ebrisht ne duhet t\u00eb nisemi s\u00eb pari nga ky fakt dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrligjje n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien ton\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebpastajme. Mir\u00ebpo, n\u00ebse ne e menjanojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb element duke ua l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje politikan\u00ebve, e q\u00eb soji i politikanit ballkanik \u00ebsht\u00eb mediok\u00ebr dhe narcizoid, e q\u00eb kjo pastaj i b\u00ebn t\u00eb jen\u00eb edhe t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, ashtu si\u00e7 jan\u00eb edhe tani, at\u00ebher\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tona do t\u00eb jen\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb e m\u00eb larg.<\/p>\n<p>Me\u00a0udh\u00ebheq\u00ebs\u00a0q\u00eb kan\u00eb vizion provincializmi, inatet dhe n\u00ebnkambcat politike, nuk mundemi\u00a0t\u00eb vendosim komunikim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebrbashkues n\u00eb mes vete. Si nga ana shqiptare, ashtu edhe nga ana serbe, politikan\u00ebt (pothuajse shumica prej tyre) nuk kan\u00eb vullnet dhe kurajo q\u00eb dy komunitetet (shqiptar\u00eb dhe serb\u00eb) t\u00eb (ri)nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien ton\u00eb, sepse n\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebtyre politikan\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb na mbajn\u00eb sa m\u00eb larg nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, q\u00eb vet\u00eb ata t\u00eb jen\u00eb sa m\u00eb af\u00ebr pushtetit. Armiq\u00ebsimi yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr politikan\u00ebt populist\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndihen t\u00eb sikletosur n\u00ebse ne kemi raporte t\u00eb mira. E mira e k\u00ebtyre politikan\u00ebve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe e mira jon\u00eb, kur e\u00a0keqja jon\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mira e tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Historia q\u00eb kemi nd\u00ebrtuar qoft\u00eb p\u00ebr vete, qoft\u00eb p\u00ebr tjetrin, \u00ebsht\u00eb historia q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb paku na duhet n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e nj\u00eb raporti normal me baz\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, por ama nj\u00eb gj\u00eb duhet ta kemi t\u00eb qart\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e jon\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs, zem\u00ebrimit dhe urrejtjes son\u00eb dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb desh\u00ebm apo s&#8217;e desh\u00ebm duhet pranuar. Pra, ne e shp\u00ebrfillnim dhe ende e shp\u00ebrfillim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr shkak edhe t\u00eb historirave q\u00eb vet\u00eb i sajuam. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb orientimi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb jasht\u00eb politik\u00ebs dhe pa ngarkesat e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, madje-madje, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb k\u00ebto dy sfera t\u00eb ndikohen nga jasht\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb grack\u00ebn e historis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb manipulimit nga politika ne duhet q\u00eb ta trasojm\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb ku komunikimi do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nga forumet e ndryshme si shoq\u00ebria civile, mediat, sfera kulturore dhe secili nga ne t\u00eb kontribuoj\u00eb n\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr krijimin e nj\u00eb komunikimi normal. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb komunikojm\u00eb aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr do t\u2019i thyejm\u00eb stereotipet q\u00eb ia kemi vendosur nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Pra, ajo q\u00eb na dallon n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb univers \u00ebsht\u00eb gjuha, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, \u00a0na duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi vet\u00eb p\u00ebr ta rikuperuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Komunikim q\u00eb na bashkon Edhepse ne ishim n\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dikur, ishim t\u00eb vetmuar. K\u00ebt\u00eb vetmi e kemi p\u00ebrjetuar deri n\u00eb palc\u00eb. Shumica e mbajm\u00eb mend at\u00eb si na g\u00ebrryente p\u00ebrbrenda si\u00a0lum\u00eb i rr\u00ebmbyesh\u00ebm q\u00eb g\u00ebrryen shtratin e tij. Shp\u00ebrfillja, si gjendje dhe aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr si realitet n\u00eb raport me [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":266,"featured_media":8396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[733],"class_list":["post-3631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion"],"authors":[{"term_id":733,"user_id":266,"is_guest":0,"slug":"dritan-dragusha","display_name":"Dritan Dragusha","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/dritan.webp","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/dritan.webp"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Dragusha","first_name":"Dritan","description":"Dritan Dragusha \u00ebsht\u00eb i diplomuar n\u00eb filozofi, n\u00eb Universitetin e Prishtin\u00ebs. 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