{"id":3853,"date":"2019-01-18T16:15:17","date_gmt":"2019-01-18T14:15:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=3853"},"modified":"2024-12-17T16:21:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-17T14:21:13","slug":"eshte-bukur-ne-zonen-e-rehatise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/analize\/eshte-bukur-ne-zonen-e-rehatise\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cbsht\u00eb bukur n\u00eb zon\u00ebn e rehatis\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-up\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sbunker.net\/op-ed\/89809\/normalizim-i-njeanshem\/\">Jeta,<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>Pasi po m\u00eb duket se po e keqkupton q\u00ebllimin tim dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb kam paraqitur deri m\u00eb tani dhe ke barazuar konkluzionet e mia me q\u00ebndrimet dhe vlerat e mia, theksoj se ajo q\u00eb vijon \u00ebsht\u00eb analiza ime, bazuar n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb di, nga p\u00ebrvoja ime n\u00eb biseda me njer\u00ebz etj. N\u00eb analiz\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb jem objektive, n\u00ebse them se mendoj di\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu ose ashtu, kjo assesi nuk n\u00ebnkupton q\u00eb un\u00eb dua e as se nuk dua q\u00eb gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb vendosen n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ke iniciuar shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb fundit dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjesh n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha n\u00eb nj\u00eb tekst t\u00eb k\u00ebtij formati. Prandaj do t\u00eb ndaj dy mendimet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe dy p\u00ebrgjigje.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrgjigjen time t\u00eb kaluar e pata titulluar &#8220;Nuk ka normalizim universal&#8221;, jo sepse mendoj q\u00eb procesi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i nj\u00ebansh\u00ebm, por mu sepse e kuptoj q\u00eb kjo fjal\u00eb n\u00ebnkupton aq shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr grupet e ndryshme t\u00eb interesit. I kam paraqitur kushtet e normalizimit nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi i komunitetit serb sepse jam m\u00eb kompetente t\u00eb flas nga ky k\u00ebnd dhe sepse ne po zhvillojm\u00eb dialog mes nj\u00eb serbe dhe nj\u00eb shqiptare nga Kosova dhe kam vler\u00ebsuar se kjo perspektiv\u00eb ka vler\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb dalluese n\u00eb korrespondenc\u00ebn p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb. Kontributin t\u00ebnd kryesor e shoh n\u00eb paraqitjen e k\u00ebrkesave t\u00eb komunitetit shqiptar.<\/p>\n<p>Mendoj se kemi hyr\u00eb n\u00eb faz\u00ebn p\u00ebrfundimtare t\u00eb zbatimit t\u00eb ides\u00eb p\u00ebr shk\u00ebmbimin e territorit dhe megjith\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur ta ndalim k\u00ebt\u00eb makineri, konsideroj se duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb na takon, e kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb motivimin e akter\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb zhveshim rolin ton\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb skenar, sado q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i instrumentalizuar, e ne t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se ta luajm\u00eb at\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar p\u00ebr ne. K\u00ebt\u00eb e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe n\u00eb korrespodenc\u00ebn e m\u00ebparshme.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb segment vet\u00ebm do t\u00eb shtoja se \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00ebse Serbia ka ose nuk ka ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb morale ose \u00e7far\u00ebdo t\u00eb drejt\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u2019u thirrur n\u00eb mosp\u00ebrfilljen e Paket\u00ebs s\u00eb Ahtisarit, si\u00e7 thua, Serbia e refuzoi k\u00ebt\u00eb zgjidhje &#8230; por Kosova jo. Kosova \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ishte zotuar se do t&#8217;i p\u00ebrmbahet dispozitave t\u00eb asaj Pakete dhe Kosova \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb krenohet me t\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse zbatimi \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn \u00e7do standard.<\/p>\n<p>Sa i p\u00ebrket vet\u00eb serb\u00ebve t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs dhe &#8220;detyrimeve tona ndaj sistemit&#8221;, un\u00eb dua ta kujtoj se Koalicioni Kthimi (Povratak) n\u00eb zgjedhjet e para parlamentare n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb pas luft\u00ebs, n\u00eb vitin 2001, ishte partia e tret\u00eb parlamentare pas LDK-s\u00eb dhe PDK-s\u00eb, me madje 22 deputet\u00eb. N\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr zgjedhje u\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com\/books?id=YVAZQxB2HacC&amp;pg=PA385&amp;lpg=PA385&amp;dq=xhemal+mustafa&amp;source=bl&amp;ots=1IdJzcBcj0&amp;sig=UhQgbYGtbKKCaO1bWwLdQyTrojk&amp;hl=sr&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjZreXLuKffAhUEiaYKHVvsAZ0Q6AEwCnoECAgQAQ#v=onepage&amp;q=xhemal%20mustafa&amp;f=false\">regjistruan<\/a>\u00a0madje 70,000 serb\u00eb dhe pjes\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb pakicave t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb si dhe 100,000 persona t\u00eb zhvendosur brenda vendit nga Serbia dhe Mali i Zi. Ky koalicion mori pjes\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e institucioneve qendrore deri n\u00eb ngjarjet e vitit 2004, e madje edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb serb\u00ebt n\u00eb jug mbet\u00ebn pjes\u00eb e institucioneve vendore deri n\u00eb shpalljen e nj\u00ebanshme t\u00eb pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 p\u00ebrvet\u00ebsimit t\u00eb Paket\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrmendur t\u00eb ligjeve t\u00eb Ahtisaarit dhe zbatimit jo t\u00eb rregullt t\u00eb tyre, serb\u00ebt kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb po aq shum\u00eb sa shqiptar\u00ebt p\u00ebr multietnicitetin e Kosov\u00ebs. Ajo q\u00eb mungoi ishte kthimi i serb\u00ebve n\u00eb zonat urbane dhe nuk shoh sesi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb multietnike, n\u00ebse qasja n\u00eb qytete \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndaluar p\u00ebr serb\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>Natyrisht, pranoj se situata ishte krejt\u00ebsisht ndryshe n\u00eb veri. K\u00ebtu, deri n\u00eb vitin 2013, kur Serbia na detyroi ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb, nuk kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrveprim me sistemin e Kosov\u00ebs. P\u00ebr komunitetin k\u00ebtu, integrimi n\u00eb sistemin e Kosov\u00ebs ka sjell\u00eb vet\u00ebm destabilizim, institucionet serbe q\u00eb as nuk jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb e as nuk jan\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht funksionale dhe institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk funksionojn\u00eb me kapacitet t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Dhe m\u00eb e keqja nga t\u00eb gjithat, krizat politike t\u00eb cilat e pezullojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb \u00e7do disa muaj dhe p\u00ebrshkojn\u00eb \u00e7do segment realiteti deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb ku nuk mund t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n<p>Mendimi im i dyt\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmblidhet n\u00eb dy fraza &#8220;m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nga pyetja \u00e7ka duhet \u00ebsht\u00eb pse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb&#8221; dhe &#8220;standarde t\u00eb barabarta&#8221;. K\u00ebtu do t\u00eb theksoja n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb eksplicite se nuk e ve\u00e7oj &#8220;normalizimin politik&#8221; nga &#8220;normalizimi shoq\u00ebror&#8221; sepse personalisht mendoj se duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, por sepse kam baza p\u00ebr t\u00eb besuar se \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu dhe se kjo nuk ka fare t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj se duhet ose nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nga letra e par\u00eb q\u00eb ta kam drejtuar ty, p\u00ebrpiqem t&#8217;i p\u00ebrgjigjem pyetjes &#8220;pse di\u00e7ka nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb&#8221;, nd\u00ebrsa te ti v\u00ebrej tendenc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur standarde dhe at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, mendoj se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb shkaqet e gjendjes aktuale, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdoj me timen, do t\u00eb ve\u00e7oj &#8220;duhet&#8221; m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nga letra jote dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjem n\u00eb &#8220;pse ajo q\u00eb duhet, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><em>Duhet: &#8220;Shoq\u00ebri kosovare do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha komunitetet t\u00eb cilat jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb k\u00ebtu edhe komuniteti serb&#8221;.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pra, sakt\u00eb ke v\u00ebrejtur se kur serb\u00ebt thon\u00eb &#8220;shoq\u00ebri kosovare&#8221;, n\u00eb t\u00eb nuk e vendosin vet\u00ebn edhe ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb regjimin e Millosheviqit edhe dikush q\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb serbe kolektivisht e konsideron gjenocidale. Mendon se ke t\u00eb gjitha mjetet dhe p\u00ebrvojat e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar mjaft mir\u00eb pse ajo q\u00eb thua se duhet, n\u00eb praktik\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n<p>Nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi i komunitetit serb, shqiptar\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb duksh\u00ebm, lider\u00ebt e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kosovare jan\u00eb Hashim Tha\u00e7i, Ramush Haradinaj dhe Kadri Veseli (tani k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe Fatmir Limaj, por ndryshe nga tre t\u00eb par\u00ebt, ai nuk ka vazhdim\u00ebsi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dukshm\u00ebri). Ramush Haradinaj, sipas p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb komanduese n\u00eb Hag\u00eb ishte thirr\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr vrasjen dhe torturimin e rreth 30 civil\u00ebve shqiptar\u00eb, rom\u00eb dhe serb\u00eb t\u00eb gjetur n\u00eb liqenin e Radoniqit, por edhe p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdhunimin e nj\u00eb gruaje rome q\u00eb e kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb ushtar n\u00eb zinxhirin e tij t\u00eb komand\u00ebs, gjoja sipas urdhrit.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebtu jan\u00eb emrat e disa civil\u00ebve t\u00eb gjetur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb varrez\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn deri n\u00eb aktakuz\u00ebn e par\u00eb n\u00eb vitin\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.icty.org\/x\/cases\/haradinaj\/ind\/en\/har-ii050224e.pdf\">2001\u00a0<\/a>ekzistonin prova q\u00eb i lidhin ato me nj\u00ebsit\u00eb n\u00ebn komand\u00ebn e Kryeministrit t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Vukosava Markoviq, Darinka Kova\u00e7, Millovan Vllahoviq, Millosh Radunoviq, Sllobodan Radosheviq, Hajrullah Gashi, Isuf Hoxha, Ilira Frrokaj, Tush Frrokaj, Illija Antiq, Adzi Seferaj, Vellizar Stoshiq, Millka Vllahoviq, n\u00ebna SST7\/04 (d\u00ebshmitare), Safet Kuqi, Zdravko Radunoviq dhe Pal Krasniqi.<\/p>\n<p>Kushdo q\u00eb ka stomak mund t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb holl\u00ebsit\u00eb m\u00eb mizore t\u00eb fateve t\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr secilin nga k\u00ebta individ\u00eb n\u00eb aktakuz\u00ebn n\u00eb linkun m\u00eb lart, ku ofrohen edhe sqarimet dhe provat n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb cilave dyshohej se jan\u00eb mbajtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb burg t\u00eb administruar nga Haradinaj ose ishin rr\u00ebmbyer nga nj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe sakt\u00eb, Ramush Haradinaj nuk u d\u00ebnua n\u00eb Hag\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb provave, por fakti q\u00eb Millosheviqi kurr\u00eb nuk mori nj\u00eb gjykim, me siguri nuk b\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tu ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb pak fajtor p\u00ebr mizorit\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>E nj\u00ebjta vlen edhe p\u00ebr Haradinajn, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e \u00e7do serbi dhe serbeje, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kriminel dhe p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb asociacion i par\u00eb n\u00eb Qeverin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs ose shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kosovare, serb\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb ndjehen pjes\u00eb e asaj shoq\u00ebrie.<\/p>\n<p>Hashim Tha\u00e7i dhe Kadri Veseli jan\u00eb nj\u00eb makth edhe m\u00eb i keq. N\u00eb raportin e raportuesit t\u00eb K\u00ebshillit t\u00eb Evrop\u00ebs\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/assembly.coe.int\/CommitteeDocs\/2010\/20101218_ajdoc462010provamended.pdf\">Dick Marty,<\/a>\u00a0k\u00ebta dy lider\u00eb institucional\u00eb t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, s\u00eb bashku me Xheladin Gashin (as emri i Fatmir Limajt dhe Xhavit Halitit nuk p\u00ebrjashtohen nga ky raport, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat krime) jan\u00eb em\u00ebruar si organizator\u00eb t\u00eb operacionit t\u00eb tregtimit t\u00eb paligjsh\u00ebm me organe dhe trajtim \u00e7njer\u00ebzor t\u00eb civil\u00ebve, e cila u krye n\u00eb disa qendra paraburgimi n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri pas qershorit 1999. Viktimat e tyre gjithashtu kishin p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme etnike, megjith\u00ebse p\u00ebr tregti me organe, sipas pohimeve t\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve q\u00eb ishin n\u00eb paraburgim n\u00eb qendrat n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, fillimisht p\u00ebrzgjidheshin m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshmit, respektivisht m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshmit t\u00eb grupit t\u00eb pavullnetsh\u00ebm t\u00eb donator\u00ebve, nd\u00ebrsa \u201cp\u00ebrpar\u00ebsia\u201d i ishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb grupi t\u00eb caktuar etnik &#8211; serb\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Vet\u00eb ekzistimi i dyshimit se Presidenti i Kosov\u00ebs dhe Kryetari i Kuvendit t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs potencialisht jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr zhdukjen e nj\u00eb numri t\u00eb caktuar nga gjithsej 500 persona t\u00eb zhdukur pas t\u00ebrheqjes s\u00eb ushtris\u00eb serbe nga Kosova, dhe t\u00eb cil\u00ebve gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe ndoshta me dhun\u00eb u kan\u00eb rr\u00ebmbyer organet e brendshme, t\u00eb burgosurve kryesisht t\u00eb komb\u00ebsis\u00eb serbe, parandalon identifikimin e komunitetit serb me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb lidhet me institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa k\u00ebta persona i udh\u00ebheqin ato.<\/p>\n<p>Natyrisht numri i\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.balkaninsight.com\/en\/article\/kosovo-war-victims-list-published\">viktimave civile<\/a>\u00a0n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb shqiptare (8661) \u00ebsht\u00eb kat\u00ebr her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se serbe (1797), q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se p\u00ebr ty do t\u00eb ishte edhe m\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb gjesh detajet e neveritshme t\u00eb kriminel\u00ebve serb\u00eb dhe mu p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet ta kesh t\u00eb qart\u00eb pse un\u00eb mund t\u00eb kuptoj se ti dhe komuniteti i yt nuk ishit n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb barazoheshit me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb jugosllave, sidomos jo pas luft\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr pajtim \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, por edhe standardet e nj\u00ebjta.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr ty \u00ebsht\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebnosh dhe ndjesh neveri ndaj mohimit t\u00eb gjenocidit n\u00eb Srebrenic\u00eb nga Ana B\u00ebrnabiq ose faktit q\u00eb Vu\u00e7iq ka qen\u00eb minist\u00ebr n\u00eb qeverin\u00eb e Millosheviqit, si dhe p\u00ebr mua. Ndjej neveri nga k\u00ebto dhe shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb i lidhin me korrupsionin dhe krimin. Por un\u00eb nuk mund ta d\u00ebnoj Ana B\u00ebrnabiqin sepse ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se Srebrenica ishte krim lufte, por jo gjenocid, e nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht t\u00eb mos e d\u00ebnoj Haradinajn sepse ndoshta ka kryer krim lufte. N\u00ebse B\u00ebrnabiq ose Vu\u00e7iq jan\u00eb nj\u00eb dor\u00eb e zgjatur e politik\u00ebs kriminale n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs kan\u00eb p\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, at\u00ebher\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe Ramushi dhe Tha\u00e7i&#8230; dhe me mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb, ndryshe nga Vu\u00e7iq apo Millosheviq, ata personalisht, me duart e veta kan\u00eb kryer k\u00ebto vepra.<\/p>\n<p>Standardet e barabarta duhet t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb regjistrimin e viktimave t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. Mendoj se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull t\u00eb sfidohet numri i regjistruar i personave t\u00eb zhvendosur nga Kosova sipas regjistrimit t\u00eb popullsis\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin vet\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb konstaton se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i besuesh\u00ebm, nd\u00ebrsa nga ana tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb nxirret vler\u00ebsimi i numrit t\u00eb viktimave t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale si num\u00ebr ekzakt edhe pse numri i regjistruar i viktimave t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fund, t&#8217;i p\u00ebrgjigjem pyetjes t\u00ebnde\u00a0<em>si t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb normalizimi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Prap\u00eb, esenc\u00ebn e shoh n\u00eb di\u00e7ka \u00e7far\u00eb the, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk pajtohem thell\u00ebsisht. Fjala \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb konstatim:<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb dhe Serbi nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb studente e apasionuar e let\u00ebrsis\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa romantizmi ishte nj\u00eb nga l\u00ebvizjet e mia t\u00eb preferuara letrare dhe e kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb sesi dhe nga cilat iniciativa sociale lindi konstrukti shoq\u00ebror i &#8220;kombit&#8221; n\u00eb shekullin e 19-t\u00eb. Ajo sesi e sheh ti shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kosovare jan\u00eb karakteristikat tipike t\u00eb heroit bajronik. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb komb q\u00eb nuk e percepton veten si i lir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb i drejt\u00eb n\u00eb raport me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, q\u00eb veten nuk e konsideron individual, krenar, liridash\u00ebs e t\u00eb dinjitetsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, besoj se shumica e serb\u00ebve q\u00eb kan\u00eb lexuar at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ke shkruar ti p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kosovare kan\u00eb menduar: po edhe serb\u00ebt humb\u00ebn 1,2 milion banor\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Luft\u00ebn e Par\u00eb Bot\u00ebrore, a nuk i b\u00ebn kjo popull liridash\u00ebs?<\/p>\n<p>Megjith\u00ebse, nga perspektiva ime, as k\u00ebta nuk e kan\u00eb mir\u00eb, \u00e7do njeri p\u00ebr nga natyra \u00ebsht\u00eb liridash\u00ebs dhe nuk ka komb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb &#8220;m\u00eb liridash\u00ebs&#8221; se tjetri, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb gjitha shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb dominojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb grupohen p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e tyre.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk mendoj se ekziston ndonj\u00eb dallim thelb\u00ebsor midis shoq\u00ebris\u00eb kosovare dhe asaj serbe, dhe as q\u00eb ka dallime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha midis dy shoq\u00ebrive t\u00eb tjera kudo n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb shoh njer\u00ebz, t\u00eb grupuar n\u00eb baza t\u00eb caktuara identiteti, po aq t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar dhe shkat\u00ebrruar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb vrar\u00eb dhe mbrojtur. Ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebn dallimin mes k\u00ebtyre grupeve jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm institucionet, paraardh\u00ebsi i t\u00eb cilave \u00ebsht\u00eb kontrata shoq\u00ebrore. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishme dhe korrigjuese institucionet, aq m\u00eb e avancuar dhe liridash\u00ebse shoq\u00ebria, sa m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebta institucionet, aq m\u00eb e madhe shtypja dhe denigrimi i vlerave morale. Natyrisht, zhvillimi ekonomik dhe arsimi luajn\u00eb nj\u00eb rol po aq t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrsa institucionet, si n\u00eb Serbi ashtu edhe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, jan\u00eb uzurpuar dhe v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb elitave t\u00eb korruptuara politike dhe kriminel\u00ebve dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb paefektshme n\u00eb nd\u00ebshkimin e modeleve t\u00eb papranueshme shoq\u00ebrore, si\u00e7 jan\u00eb dhuna ndaj civil\u00ebve, diskriminimi dhe shum\u00eb dukuri t\u00eb tjera negative.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr mua, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb konkluzion \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i rregullimit t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Ballkanin, jo vet\u00ebm midis serb\u00ebve dhe shqiptar\u00ebve, e pasi shoh se jemi larg nga ky konkluzion kam paraqitur parashikimin tim se pajtimi n\u00eb brezin ton\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb. Mendoj se edhe ti e ke d\u00ebshmuar k\u00ebt\u00eb me p\u00ebrshkrimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb serbe si &#8220;genocidiale me nj\u00eb rezistence qytetare t\u00eb vonuar, kriz\u00eb identiteti dhe t\u00eb kaluar t\u00eb turpshme&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Fillimisht, t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto epitete edhe etiketimin e gjith\u00eb kombit mund t&#8217;i zbatosh edhe n\u00eb periudhat jo t\u00eb lavdishme t\u00eb historis\u00eb s\u00eb amerikan\u00ebve, gjerman\u00ebve, italian\u00ebve, kroat\u00ebve, britanik\u00ebve, turqve, rus\u00ebve &#8230; dhe kjo list\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb pafund\u00ebsi, por ti problemin e sheh vet\u00ebm te ata q\u00eb t\u00eb shkaktuan d\u00ebm ty drejtp\u00ebrdrejt.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb absolutisht e kuptueshme, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht d\u00ebshmon se ti e para nuk do t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb pajtohesh me serb\u00ebt, sepse si do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb, e mbi t\u00eb gjitha pse do t\u00eb pajtoheshe me dik\u00eb, nd\u00ebrgjegjen komb\u00ebtare e t\u00eb cilit e sheh n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. E nj\u00ebjta vlen p\u00ebr serb\u00ebt q\u00eb kan\u00eb vuajtur nga shqiptar\u00ebt; jan\u00eb t\u00eb rrall\u00eb ata q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ngrihen mbi t\u00eb gjitha ato trauma dhe t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb midis kriminelit dhe t\u00eb fqinjit t\u00eb tyre ose, m\u00eb keq, f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb fqinj\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre q\u00eb assesi nuk kishin pasur kurrfar\u00eb ndikimi n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodhte n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse un\u00eb mendoj se brezi yn\u00eb mund ta arrij\u00eb paqen, por jo edhe pajtimin.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Sbunker e boton k\u00ebt\u00eb kolumne t\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer dhe t\u00eb botuar n\u00eb origjinal nga portali\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/kossev.info\/\">KoSSev<\/a>.\u00a0Ky portal,\u00a0me mb\u00ebshtetjen e Organizat\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr Migracionin, nis rubrik\u00ebn e re Millica dhe Jeta, n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb faqes Dialogu. Aktivist\u00ebt civile Millica Andriq nga Zubin Potoku dhe Jeta Krasniqi nga Prishtina do t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbejn\u00eb q\u00ebndrimet rreth \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve aktuale t\u00eb popullit serb dhe shqiptar dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjella n\u00eb muajt n\u00eb vijim. Rubrika publikohet n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit &#8220;P\u00ebrkrahja n\u00eb krijimin e lidhjeve shoq\u00ebrore dhe mbrojtjes s\u00eb pakicave n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb&#8221;. Mendimet dhe q\u00ebndrimet e shprehura paraqesin mendimet e vet\u00eb autoreve dhe nuk pasqyrojn\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht pik\u00ebpamjet e redaksis\u00eb s\u00eb KoSSev-it dhe donator\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Nga gjuha serbe tekstin e p\u00ebrktheu:\u00a0<strong>Bruno Neziraj\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Lepo je u zoni komfora&#8221;<\/em>\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/kossev.info\/lepo-je-u-zoni-komfora\/\">https:\/\/kossev.info\/lepo-je-u-zoni-komfora\/<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jeta, Pasi po m\u00eb duket se po e keqkupton q\u00ebllimin tim dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb kam paraqitur deri m\u00eb tani dhe ke barazuar konkluzionet e mia me q\u00ebndrimet dhe vlerat e mia, theksoj se ajo q\u00eb vijon \u00ebsht\u00eb analiza ime, bazuar n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb di, nga p\u00ebrvoja ime n\u00eb biseda me njer\u00ebz etj. 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