{"id":4223,"date":"2018-06-07T16:27:17","date_gmt":"2018-06-07T14:27:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=4223"},"modified":"2024-10-24T14:45:39","modified_gmt":"2024-10-24T12:45:39","slug":"fragment-nga-kopshti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/fragment-nga-kopshti\/","title":{"rendered":"Fragment nga kopshti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"news-up\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Ka disa muaj q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb shkruaj di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re e disa muaj q\u00eb nuk ia dal. N\u00eb rrethana normale n\u00ebn identitetin e nj\u00eb shkrimtari relativisht t\u00eb ri patjet\u00ebr se do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesha. Nj\u00ebjt\u00eb sikurse n\u00ebn po k\u00ebto rrethana, pra n\u00eb rrethanat normale, do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb mos m\u00eb k\u00ebrciste p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb rrim\u00eb e t\u00eb sodisim bot\u00ebn n\u00ebn po k\u00ebto rrethana. Ne kemi nj\u00eb prirje t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se q\u00eb mundemi. Pra n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast. T\u00eb d\u00ebrd\u00ebllis p\u00ebr arsye se nuk po mundem t\u00eb d\u00ebrd\u00ebllis m\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<p>M\u00eb\u00a0ka humbur sensi. M\u00eb ka humbur ritmi apo dreqi m\u00eb ka p\u00ebrjashtuar. I gjendur n\u00ebn nj\u00eb funksion totalisht t\u00eb\u00a0ri, n\u00eb rolin e babait sikur kam ndjenj\u00ebn se jam p\u00ebrjashtuar nga let\u00ebrsia. Aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb kur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb\u00a0par\u00eb nuk m\u00eb ka ndodhur q\u00eb librat q\u00eb i lexoj, t\u00eb rrin\u00eb t\u00eb gjysm\u00ebhapura duke vuajtur p\u00ebr kapakun e fundit.\u00a0\u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e hapur k\u00ebrkon kapakun. \u00cbsht\u00eb e natyrshme. Nuk kemi nevoj\u00eb ta themi. Megjith\u00ebse e\u00a0tham\u00eb. I gjendur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rol t\u00eb ri, duke u marr\u00eb me lodrat e djalit kam nisur p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb b\u00ebhem f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Kam\u00a0bllokuar der\u00ebn p\u00ebr te realiteti barbar dhe sall e ushqej djalin tim me vjershat e mia q\u00eb nuk dalin n\u00eb drit\u00eb.\u00a0Duke kaluar koh\u00ebn me t\u00eb ndjej\u00a0shtres\u00ebzimet e mia. Dhe identitetet e shumta q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb karakterizuar\u00a0gjithmon\u00eb. Duke kaluar koh\u00ebn me t\u00eb njoh\u00a0veten dhe e q\u00eblloj me shkop kok\u00ebn e kafsh\u00ebs q\u00eb quhet let\u00ebrsi.\u00a0Dhe e v\u00ebshtroj. Pres reagime dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri b\u00ebhem qull duke nd\u00ebrruar pelenat apo duke e shtypur bananen\u00a0dhe avokadon.<\/p>\n<p>Instinkti ma thot\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb jem n\u00eb krye t\u00eb detyr\u00ebs. Dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohem. Cilat\u00a0jan\u00eb detyrat e mia? T\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb ndryshoj nj\u00eb realitet \u00e7far\u00ebdoqoft\u00eb ai politik, kulturor, social n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\u00a0q\u00eb p\u00ebr pasardh\u00ebsit tan\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb dicka njer\u00ebzore apo t\u00eb p\u00ebrhumbem n\u00eb realitetin e lodrave, arushit dhe\u00a0biberon\u00ebve. Pra rrjedhimisht t\u00eb pranoj disfat\u00ebn\u00a0dhe t\u00eb migroj pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb at\u00eb vend ku dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt e par\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0djalit tim kafshojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb cepin e batanijes, n\u00eb etiket\u00ebn e nj\u00eb xhemperi apo n\u00eb qoshen e nj\u00eb shisheje.\u00a0Novelistja franceze Marguerite Yourcenar n\u00eb Aleksis ose Traktati i luft\u00ebs s\u00eb kot\u00eb m\u00eb ngush\u00ebllon kur thot\u00eb\u00a0se asgj\u00eb nuk vihet baraz me \u00ebmb\u00eblsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb disfate q\u00eb e di se \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimtare. Pra p\u00ebrfundimisht\u00a0jam i paaft\u00eb t&#8217;ja ofroj nj\u00eb realitet ndryshe. Dhe jam i paaft\u00eb ta st\u00ebrvis\u00eb n\u00eb aren\u00ebn e b\u00ebrrylave t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrgjakur. Pra gjasat jan\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsohem m\u00eb par\u00eb me rregullat e tij. Derisa do ta marrim nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb\u00a0dhe do t\u00eb shohim pak\u00ebz m\u00eb t\u00eb pjekur. Si dy ushtar\u00eb\u00a0t\u00eb bukur. Q\u00eb mbrojn\u00eb diellin nga kafshimet e t\u00eb\u00a0rriturve. Duke e rr\u00ebnuar edhe konceptin e gruas s\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb akademis\u00eb franceze.<\/p>\n<div class=\"news-right\">\n<div class=\"post\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ka disa muaj q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb shkruaj di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re e disa muaj q\u00eb nuk ia dal. N\u00eb rrethana normale n\u00ebn identitetin e nj\u00eb shkrimtari relativisht t\u00eb ri patjet\u00ebr se do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesha. Nj\u00ebjt\u00eb sikurse n\u00ebn po k\u00ebto rrethana, pra n\u00eb rrethanat normale, do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb mos m\u00eb k\u00ebrciste p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb. Por [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":511,"featured_media":8935,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[1403],"class_list":["post-4223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion"],"authors":[{"term_id":1403,"user_id":511,"is_guest":0,"slug":"shpetim-selmani","display_name":"Shp\u00ebtim Selmani","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/shpetim-selmani.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/shpetim-selmani.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Selmani","first_name":"Shp\u00ebtim","description":"Shp\u00ebtim Selmani \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkrimtar dhe aktor kosovar. Ka studiuar n\u00eb Universitetin e Prishtin\u00ebs. Ai ka luajtur n\u00eb sken\u00eb brenda dhe jasht\u00eb vendit."}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/511"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4223"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4223\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9107,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4223\/revisions\/9107"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4223"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=4223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}