{"id":4393,"date":"2015-09-08T12:09:31","date_gmt":"2015-09-08T10:09:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=4393"},"modified":"2025-11-27T16:32:56","modified_gmt":"2025-11-27T14:32:56","slug":"udhepershkrimi-i-miljo-ambien-pjesa-4-shqiptaret-diskrete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/udhepershkrimi-i-miljo-ambien-pjesa-4-shqiptaret-diskrete\/","title":{"rendered":"Udh\u00ebp\u00ebrshkrimi i Miljo Ambien &#8211; Pjesa 4: Shqiptar\u00ebt diskret\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-up\">\n<p>Flasin pandal\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin&#8230;sa tregime t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta, me zgjuarsi e dredhi halucinante, me rreziqe e triumfe t\u00eb denja heronjsh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<div class=\"img-wrapper\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>Kudo, jeta personale, sidomos pjesa q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me seksin, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb diskrete. Ka qen\u00eb dhe mbetet edhe pas ardhjes s\u00eb mediave sociale.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, krahasuar me Per\u00ebndimin, p\u00ebr aq sa kam v\u00ebrejtur, kjo an\u00eb diskrete g\u00ebzon territor shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madh e m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb mesin e shqiptar\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Lexuesi mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb arsye t\u00eb indinjohet nga sjellja ime e paskurpullt e p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb rasteve personale, emocionit njer\u00ebzor, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar; \u00e7far\u00eb egoizmi! Mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb arsye edhe p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebn\u00eb an\u00ebn time morale n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje: \u00e7\u2019njeri na qenka ky q\u00eb p\u00ebrzihet paturp\u00ebsisht n\u00eb k\u00ebsi historish! Me at\u00eb rrezik, n\u00eb mbrojtje timen, po n\u00ebnvizoj vet\u00ebm q\u00eb tradicionalisht, n\u00eb profesionin tim, mundohemi t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb fenomenet shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebrmes rastesh q\u00eb i trajtojm\u00eb ose me t\u00eb cilat familjarizohemi. Fati e vlera e tyr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe interpretimi.<\/p>\n<p>Femr\u00ebn e par\u00eb shqiptare me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kam fjetur e kam njohur n\u00eb udh\u00ebtimin tim t\u00eb dyt\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, m\u00eb 2011, n\u00eb Gjilan. Nj\u00eb asi mbr\u00ebmje ku dikush me t\u00eb cilin ke dal\u00eb e njeh dik\u00eb q\u00eb vjen rast\u00ebsisht ose q\u00eb e ka tabjat t\u00eb dal\u00eb po aty, e q\u00eb gjithashtu shoq\u00ebrohet edhe me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Sepse shqiptar\u00ebt, sidomos femrat, shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb dalin vet\u00eb. Nuk kisha ndonj\u00eb pritje t\u00eb entusiazmuar ngaq\u00eb kishim folur, por, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr faktit se pyetjet e saj t\u00eb jepnin p\u00ebrshtypjen e nj\u00eb interesimi t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, ajo prap\u00eb m\u00eb dukej m\u00eb shum\u00eb e rezervuar. Biseda u \u00e7el vet\u00ebm n\u00eb dit\u00ebt vijuese p\u00ebrmes mesazhesh, telefonatash, pas nj\u00eb vizite t\u00eb saj n\u00eb kryeqytet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pun\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e hajt rrug\u00ebs edhe nj\u00eb kafeje me mua, pas m\u00eb shum\u00eb mesazhesh, telefonatash.<\/p>\n<p>Vinte shpesh m\u00eb von\u00eb dhe e shpenzonim pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb dit\u00ebs n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Shum\u00eb seks, ose gati gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn seks, q\u00eb ajo e p\u00eblqente si un\u00eb. E kishte pasur nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, vet\u00ebm at\u00eb, natyrisht. P\u00ebrtej seksit, pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs e kalonte p\u00ebr kujdes. Askush nuk duhej t\u00eb merrte vesh, askush nuk duhej t\u00eb na shihte. Aq shum\u00eb tregime t\u00eb gatshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i recituar, n\u00eb form\u00eb justifikimi, n\u00eb rast se do t\u00eb hasnim rrug\u00ebs di\u00e7ka, dik\u00eb, papritur. Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb k\u00ebtilla.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, gjith\u00e7ka ndodh t\u00eb t\u00eb duket penguese: plot njer\u00ebz t\u00eb trash\u00eb, institucione t\u00eb dob\u00ebta, ushqim q\u00eb t\u00eb helmon, aj\u00ebr i ndotur. Ama, femrat jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb bukura, jan\u00eb shp\u00ebtim i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!<\/p>\n<p>Femra model kryeqytetase, model sipas konstrukcionit social, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qasshme p\u00ebr ta njoftuar. N\u00ebse ke durim, q\u00eb dometh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh shpesh n\u00eb vendet e nj\u00ebjta dhe pak a shum\u00eb t\u00eb sillesh me rutin\u00ebn e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, mundesh edhe t\u00eb krijosh nj\u00eb platform\u00eb p\u00ebr ta njohur. Fatkeq\u00ebsia ime \u00ebsht\u00eb se un\u00eb nuk jam mashkulli model sipas konstrukcionit social vend\u00ebs. P\u00ebr femrat e k\u00ebtilla \u00ebsht\u00eb pak cheap t\u00eb m\u00eb jepen edhe n\u00ebse u p\u00eblqej. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 tjerash, fundi i fundit un\u00eb jam auslander dhe m\u00eb i moshuar. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr gjith\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, edhe ajo m\u00eb d\u00ebnoi me nj\u00eb doz\u00eb diskrete. Shoq\u00ebria e saj nuk ishte e sigurt, muhabetet tona n\u00eb prani t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ishin dromca absurdi, sjellje q\u00eb, po nuk e kuptove kontekstin, t\u00eb duken t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb dal\u00eb mendsh a t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikimi. Sidomos kur ajo i fliste me t\u00ebr\u00eb rregullsin\u00eb e zakonshme, nj\u00eb minut\u00eb a ca mbr\u00ebmjeve, djalit model, ku i dihet ndoshta burrit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb. E prap\u00eb nuk z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet me asgj\u00eb kapela e saj, l\u00ebkura e saj, e qeshura e saj, aft\u00ebsia e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb kuptuar.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrsa ajo kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb divorcohet prej burrit. As ai prej saj. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn shumica e tyre, nuk e din\u00eb, por sa fals m\u00eb duket ajo skena e kapur p\u00ebr duarsh, ajo buz\u00ebqeshje n\u00eb form\u00eb ng\u00ebrdheshjeje, ai diskurs kinse krejt i rregullt bashk\u00ebshortor. \u00c7far\u00eb filmi i p\u00ebrkryer t\u00eb ngjan parasysh. \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta m\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb tep\u00ebr i k\u00ebtill\u00eb, meq\u00eb ndjej nj\u00eb lloj xhelozie, ngase p\u00ebrndryshe rr\u00ebfimet e k\u00ebtilla nuk m\u00eb jan\u00eb aspak t\u00eb panjohura. Dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, prapa n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time t\u00eb gjumit ajo vet\u00eb ma deshifron gjith\u00eb falsitetin, shterp\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, sa tregime t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta t\u00eb k\u00ebtilla vet\u00ebm se me zgjuarsi e dredhi halu\u00e7inante, me rreziqe e triumfe t\u00eb denja heronjsh, kam d\u00ebgjuar prej meshkujve. Disa syresh i kam par\u00eb me syt\u00eb e mi.<\/p>\n<p>Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb diskret p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt e ata, meshkuj e femra, flasin pandal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb studimet e personalitetit disa e shohin dh\u00ebnien e tepruar pas seksit si nj\u00eb temel prirjeje fashiste.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb rastin ton\u00eb, n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb shkoja aq larg. Ama do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb hapje. Konstruksionet e ashpra shoq\u00ebrore, zakonet, e t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb sfiduara. Si dhe paramendoni gjith\u00eb ato aventura, gjith\u00eb at\u00eb inteligjenc\u00eb, pak m\u00eb n\u00eb drit\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>______<\/p>\n<p>*Dr.Sc.Miljo Ambien (pseudonim) drejton nj\u00eb kilinik\u00eb analitike n\u00eb shtetin e Michiganit. \u00cbsht\u00eb shqiptaro-amerikan i gjenerat\u00ebs s\u00eb tret\u00eb. Udh\u00ebtimet e viteve t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat e banuara me shqiptar\u00eb n\u00eb Ballkan e kan\u00eb frym\u00ebzuar t\u00eb shkruaj\u00eb. At\u00eb e mahnit identiteti i brisht\u00eb i shqiptar\u00ebve &#8211; q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet ta kuptoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-right\">\n<div class=\"post\">\n<p class=\"author\">\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Flasin pandal\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin&#8230;sa tregime t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta, me zgjuarsi e dredhi halucinante, me rreziqe e triumfe t\u00eb denja heronjsh. Kudo, jeta personale, sidomos pjesa q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me seksin, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb diskrete. Ka qen\u00eb dhe mbetet edhe pas ardhjes s\u00eb mediave sociale. Megjithat\u00eb, krahasuar me Per\u00ebndimin, p\u00ebr aq sa kam v\u00ebrejtur, kjo an\u00eb diskrete [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":310,"featured_media":12213,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1727,2392],"ppma_author":[322],"class_list":["post-4393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-shqiptaret","tag-udhepershkrim"],"authors":[{"term_id":322,"user_id":310,"is_guest":0,"slug":"miljo-ambien","display_name":"Miljo Ambien","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/mijo-ambien1469583240.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/mijo-ambien1469583240.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Ambien","first_name":"Miljo","description":"Miljo Ambien \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb personazh fiktiv ose i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb - nj\u00eb jabanxhi i cili rr\u00ebfen p\u00ebr p\u00ebrjetimet e tija n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. 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