{"id":4972,"date":"2016-09-02T10:59:58","date_gmt":"2016-09-02T08:59:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=4972"},"modified":"2024-11-14T11:04:43","modified_gmt":"2024-11-14T09:04:43","slug":"ftese-vetem-per-ty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/kritike\/ftese-vetem-per-ty\/","title":{"rendered":"Ftes\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ty"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Kam qen\u00eb n\u00eb klas\u00eb t\u00eb tet\u00eb kur vala e sekteve dhe feve t\u00eb ndryshme arriti kulmin e m\u00ebsyerjeve n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyert e shqiptar\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrthekuar shpirtra t\u00eb trazuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb shumuar bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb njom\u00eb, aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, shum\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre sekteve dhe feve ofronin dhe ofrojn\u00eb pagesa dhe p\u00ebrfitime t\u00eb majme. Ishte (\u00ebsht\u00eb ende) shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb pre e k\u00ebtyre burrave e grave shum\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e t\u00eb qeshur q\u00eb i bien der\u00ebs e t\u00eb qasen plot respekt sikur ti ke shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Fundja, p\u00ebr pak v\u00ebmendje jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb edhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb frikshme.<\/p>\n

E interesuar n\u00eb publikime q\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb, m\u00eb dukeshin shum\u00eb shtyp cil\u00ebsor sidomos fletushkat e d\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve t\u00eb Jehovait, me ca letra shum\u00eb t\u00eb pazakonta p\u00ebr realitetin ton\u00eb, me drejtshkrim shum\u00eb t\u00eb sakt\u00eb, me faqosje tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb\u2026 E k\u00ebshtu duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndodhur q\u00eb do kem qen\u00eb duke e studiuar komplet nga pik\u00ebpamja estetike nj\u00eb fletushk\u00eb te dera, q\u00eb nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb zot\u00ebri menduan q\u00eb un\u00eb kam interes n\u00eb iden\u00eb e krijuesit (mashkull, sigurisht!).<\/p>\n

T\u00eb diel\u00ebn, dit\u00ebn kur dhe zoti pushon thon\u00eb, i ran\u00eb der\u00ebs. K\u00ebrkuan mua. Filluan teknikat e qeta plot respekt me teori e pyetje. Un\u00eb, zakonisht shum\u00eb e qeshur dhe me edukat\u00eb mikpritjeje si\u00e7 i ka hije kombit tim, nuk ua b\u00ebra bajat gj\u00ebrat aspak interesante q\u00eb thonin.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb diel\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb ishin 3. Filluan t\u00eb m\u00eb shkonin pak djers\u00eb t\u00eb ftohta, po kur i ke 14 vjet, ende nuk t\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar jeta t\u00eb mos ua p\u00ebrmbush\u00ebsh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve qejfin sidomos kur qejfi i tyre po t\u00eb bezdis ty. Mendon q\u00eb mir\u00ebsjellja t\u00eb shp\u00ebton.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb diel\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr i dhan\u00eb vetes lirin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb korridor. Donin dhe t\u2019i hidhnin nj\u00eb sy nga \u00e7\u2019familje vij un\u00eb, e si jetoj. Ende n\u00eb vet\u00ebmohim, mendova e treta e v\u00ebrteta, nuk do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb m\u00eb, kaq ishte.<\/p>\n

Po sa pak dija un\u00eb mbi si funksionojn\u00eb shitjet le t\u00eb themi, e sidomos sektet!\u00a0 At\u00eb dit\u00eb u vet\u00ebftuan p\u00ebr kafe p\u00ebr t\u00eb diel\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, dhe un\u00eb u thash\u00eb po. Nuk dija \u2018jo\u2019 un\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zakon i keq i shqiptar\u00ebve ky. Ndalon n\u00eb rrug\u00eb dhe pyet dik\u00eb \u2018m\u00eb fal a e di ku gjendet X restorant?\u2019, ai m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb fut n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e gabuar, se sa t\u00eb thot\u00eb sinqerisht \u2018jo nuk e di\u2019. K\u00ebshtu e h\u00ebngra dhe un\u00eb. Mamaja ime u shokua, po prap\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb jav\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe ajo kishte ende besim q\u00eb un\u00eb s\u2019po joshesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr sekte pa krye. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi \u00a0kisha f\u00ebmij\u00ebri t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje q\u00eb nuk predikonte besim.<\/p>\n

E kalova gjith\u00eb jav\u00ebn e bindur q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb. \u201c\u00c7\u2019pun\u00eb kishin 3 t\u00eb rritur t\u00eb kalonin t\u00eb diel\u00ebn me mua p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur bro\u00e7kulla q\u00eb as ata vet\u00eb s\u2019i besojn\u00eb?\u201d Mendoja un\u00eb. \u201cPo \u00e7\u2019u duhem un\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb? Nj\u00eb adoleshente me detyrime familjare e me 100 aktivitete jasht\u00eb shkollore? Po mir\u00eb, nuk e kuptojn\u00eb k\u00ebta q\u00eb un\u00eb thjesht jam e sjellshme? E kan\u00eb kuptuar sigurisht, dhe ata jan\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm.\u201d<\/p>\n

Dhe k\u00ebtu filloi m\u00ebsimi i par\u00eb dhe mish\u00ebrimi i th\u00ebnies s\u00eb famshme: mos ma merr mir\u00ebsjelljen p\u00ebr dob\u00ebsi.\u00a0Jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb erdh\u00ebn, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb p\u00ebrpikt\u00eb, po ishin 5 syresha. Djers\u00ebt e ftohta e t\u00eb ngrohta \u00a0u intensifikuan, mami im fuste kok\u00ebn n\u00eb dhom\u00eb me terror pasi u solli kafe pa pik\u00ebn e entuziazmit. (Ah, mir\u00ebsjellja!)<\/p>\n

Ata kishin ardhur t\u00eb m\u00eb fusnin n\u00eb kurth. Tashm\u00eb edhe mir\u00ebsjellja e tyre kishte marr\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe ishte rritur natyra e pyetjeve dhe bisedave absurde pa logjik\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Donin q\u00eb nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, un\u00eb t\u00eb isha e z\u00ebshme p\u00ebr futjen e fes\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkolla pasi t\u00eb bindesha vet\u00eb. Jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb mendja ime ishte e pushtuar nga kozmosi dhe hap\u00ebsira at\u00eb periudh\u00eb, dhe kuleta ime ishte e bendit Prodigy dhe muri im ishte i mbushur me artist\u00eb rroku, por un\u00eb dhe shoqet e mia edhe tymosnim kot ndonj\u00eb cigare tek tuk q\u00eb sa na jepte er\u00eb dhe dhimbje koke dhe n\u00eb asnj\u00eb moment nuk mendoja se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb (sigurisht, s\u2019mund t\u00eb ishte kurr\u00eb grua!) imagjinar do m\u00eb nd\u00ebshkoj\u00eb ndonj\u00eb dit\u00eb p\u00ebr veprimet e mia rebele n\u00eb klas\u00eb t\u00eb tet\u00eb. Maksimumi i druhesha prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi, m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr mos t\u2019i m\u00ebrzitur, se as ata s\u2019do m\u00eb mbyllnin n\u00eb purgator p\u00ebr nj\u00eb cigare.<\/p>\n

E teksa bluaja gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra e kush e di sa po acarohesha q\u00eb po m\u00eb bllokonin t\u00eb diel\u00ebn, asnj\u00eb moment e tunduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb besuar, e pyes nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb po vazhdonte mbi fen\u00eb n\u00eb shkolla.<\/p>\n

\u201cPo zotin kush e krijoi?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSi?!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cZotin, kush e krijoi? Nga erdhi ai?\u201d<\/p>\n

Zot\u00ebria i fyer i b\u00ebri bisht pyetjes me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb tipit \u201cai ka qen\u00eb aty gjithmon\u00eb\u201d dhe kaloi t\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ai konsideronte m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, i tronditur nga nd\u00ebrprerja krejt pa lidhje q\u00eb i b\u00ebra un\u00eb. Po sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb b\u00ebnte bisht ai, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb irritohesha un\u00eb e insistoja un\u00eb kush e krijoi zotin. \u00a0Pas nja 15 minutash q\u00eb diskutimi nuk po shuhej, pes\u00e7ja filloi t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohej, un\u00eb s\u2019haja asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje kot mbi pyetjen time plot. U fut\u00ebn dhe grat\u00eb, m\u00eb shpjegime e debate. Tashm\u00eb un\u00eb e kisha kapur situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb pas disa jav\u00ebsh, po e zot\u00ebroja un\u00eb debatin. Nuk l\u00ebshova e nuk l\u00ebshova pe. Atyre nuk po u besohej q\u00eb po m\u00eb \u201chumbnin\u201d p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pyetje kaq pa respekt.<\/p>\n

Pff, kush e krijoi zotin!!<\/p>\n

Mami im fuste kok\u00ebn tin\u00ebz, dhe kur e kapi dhe ajo pas nja nj\u00eb or\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019po ndodhte, u qet\u00ebsua nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb, e thjesht po priste t\u00eb dilnin ata nga sht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb vazhdonim t\u00eb diel\u00ebn ton\u00eb, ku nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, un\u00eb b\u00ebja akullore me arra t\u00eb pjekura.<\/p>\n

Pas mbi 2 or\u00eb debat, ata t\u00eb acaruar si un\u00eb q\u00eb u vajti e diela d\u00ebm, dol\u00ebn e nuk u kthyen m\u00eb kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sot e k\u00ebsaj dite nuk e di kush e krijoi zotin, e as nuk dua ta di. Duke qen\u00eb se p\u00ebrgjigjet e mia i gjej vet\u00ebm n\u00eb fakte e jo besime, gjithashtu ende nuk e di kush e krijoi hidrogjenin, elementin m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb gjith\u00ebsi dhe q\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsuar e mbar\u00ebvan jet\u00ebn n\u00eb planetin ton\u00eb. Ndoshta askush. Po preferoj t\u00eb ngre pyetje pa fund\u00a0 dhe t\u00eb kem shum\u00eb prej tyre t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjigjura, sesa t\u00eb gjej p\u00ebrgjigjet e mia n\u00eb besim t\u00eb verb\u00ebr, n\u00eb frik\u00ebn nga nd\u00ebshkimi, manipuluar nga burra e gra t\u00eb vdeksh\u00ebm, e jo fakte.<\/p>\n

E njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb m\u00eb marrin p\u00ebr naive sepse jam e sjellshme s\u2019kan\u00eb reshtur s\u00eb pickuari e nuk do rreshtin kurr\u00eb. As nuk e kam nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb mos jem e qeshur dhe e sjellshme dhe s\u2019ia k\u00ebshilloj askujt qasjen e eg\u00ebr \u2013 kur qesh, jo vet\u00ebm i dhuron lumturi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por lumturohesh dhe vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Para nja 4 vjet\u00ebsh i ran\u00eb der\u00ebs s\u00ebrish, sigurisht brezi i ri i d\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve, n\u00eb 7 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit.<\/p>\n

E nxehur dyfish: e para q\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb provojn\u00eb, e dyta q\u00eb m\u00eb nxjerrin gjumin n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ka un\u00eb quaj or\u00eb t\u00eb djallit, u thash\u00eb me mir\u00ebsjellje:<\/p>\n

\u201cKush \u00ebsht\u00eb?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cKemi nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr ju!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMos \u00ebsht\u00eb nga zoti?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPo.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNuk e dua, faleminderit\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Kam qen\u00eb n\u00eb klas\u00eb t\u00eb tet\u00eb kur vala e sekteve dhe feve t\u00eb ndryshme arriti kulmin e m\u00ebsyerjeve n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyert e shqiptar\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrthekuar shpirtra t\u00eb trazuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb shumuar bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb njom\u00eb, aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, shum\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre sekteve dhe feve ofronin dhe ofrojn\u00eb pagesa dhe […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":160,"featured_media":10248,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[1815,1550],"ppma_author":[189],"class_list":["post-4972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kritike","tag-ftesa","tag-religjioni"],"authors":[{"term_id":189,"user_id":160,"is_guest":0,"slug":"lura-elezi","display_name":"Lura Elezi","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/download-19-1.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/download-19-1.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Elezi","first_name":"Lura","description":"Lura punon si konsulente p\u00ebr marketing dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me publikun p\u00ebr sektorin privat n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri e Kosov\u00eb. Ajo ka mbaruar studimet n\u00eb AUBG, Blagoevgrad, Bullgari p\u00ebr marketing dhe komunikim masiv. Kur i jepet mund\u00ebsia edhe shkruan, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb profesionit, qoft\u00eb p\u00ebr qejf. Sa i p\u00ebrket \u00e7eshtjeve sociale, ajo prej vitesh \u00ebsht\u00eb aktivisht prezente n\u00eb media dhe n\u00eb terren p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e kafsh\u00ebve t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore, si dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e komunitetit LGBT."}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/160"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4972"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4972\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10249,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4972\/revisions\/10249"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10248"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4972"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=4972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}