{"id":5059,"date":"2016-02-24T16:21:04","date_gmt":"2016-02-24T14:21:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=5059"},"modified":"2024-12-13T16:25:53","modified_gmt":"2024-12-13T14:25:53","slug":"barra-qe-shteti-hedh-mbi-supet-e-prinderve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/analize\/barra-qe-shteti-hedh-mbi-supet-e-prinderve\/","title":{"rendered":"Barra q\u00eb shteti hedh mbi supet e prind\u00ebrve"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-up\">E ke mbajt\u00eb foshnj\u00ebn n\u00ebnt\u00eb muaj n\u00eb bark, ke prit\u00eb me padurim ta mbash n\u00eb krah, t\u00eb njoftohesh me t\u00eb, t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh syt\u00eb e kujt ka trash\u00ebguar, t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb gjesh cilin karakter do t\u00eb ket\u00eb. Shtatzania e lindja kan\u00eb ecur mir\u00eb. Bebushi yt rritet. Ti e th\u00ebrret n\u00eb em\u00ebr, por ai t\u00eb injoron. Ti i buz\u00ebqesh, ai nuk ta kthen buz\u00ebqeshjen. Ti e p\u00ebrqafon e ai nuk e duron af\u00ebrsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde. Ai don me qen\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Me luejt\u00eb vet\u00ebm. V\u00ebshtir\u00eb m\u00ebson t\u00eb flas\u00eb. I nd\u00ebrron disponimi shpejt. Obsesionohet pas nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyre t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb loj\u00ebs. Gjith\u00eb bisedat q\u00eb ke \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar t\u2019i b\u00ebsh me t\u00eb nuk zhvillohen. Shum\u00eb\u00e7ka mbetet e path\u00ebn\u00eb, e shpesh ato q\u00eb thuhen mbesin t\u00eb pakuptimta p\u00ebr t\u00eb, sepse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i z\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tij.<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>Ta kesh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb me autiz\u00ebm nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e leht\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo ta kesh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb me autiz\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Rruga deri te diagnoza \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhe e mundimshme: terapi t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatshme, komplikime e p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsime t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm. Vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ke kuptuar q\u00eb f\u00ebmija yt ka autiz\u00ebm, ndien nj\u00eb lloj leht\u00ebsimi, q\u00eb m\u00eb pas z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet me nj\u00eb doz\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb ankthi dhe me fillimin e nj\u00eb faze pa fund t\u00eb hulumtimit p\u00ebr autizmin.<\/p>\n<p>E t\u00ebr\u00eb familja duhet t\u00eb adaptohet dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet t\u00eb ballafaqohet me sfidat q\u00eb i sjell ky \u00e7rregullim kompleks i zhvillimit t\u00eb trurit tek f\u00ebmija. T\u00eb ndryshon stili i jet\u00ebs. \u00cbndrrat dhe synimet e tua personale marrin kahe tjet\u00ebr. E ardhmja \u00ebsht\u00eb e panjohur: Ndoshta f\u00ebmija yt do t\u00eb arrij\u00eb t\u00eb pavar\u00ebsohet, por ndoshta do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs i varur prej teje dhe ti b\u00ebn t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2019i gjendesh pran\u00eb, t\u00eb punosh me t\u00eb, ta asistosh.<\/p>\n<p>Prandaj, kur ke f\u00ebmij\u00eb autik, p\u00ebrpos q\u00eb ke rolin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs apo babait, gradualisht b\u00ebhesh terapist dhe ekspert i autizmit. Ndjek secilin hap q\u00eb b\u00ebn shkenca p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar shkaqet q\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb deri te autizmi dhe sh\u00ebrimi, i cili deri m\u00eb tani mbetet i panjohur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Procesi i nd\u00ebrlikuar i diagnostifikimit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Besohet se diku 70 milion\u00eb njer\u00ebz n\u00eb bot\u00eb kan\u00eb autiz\u00ebm. Shenjat e para t\u00eb autizmit shfaqen nd\u00ebrmjet mosh\u00ebs 12-24 muajsh. F\u00ebmija ka problem n\u00eb komunikim, nuk krijon lidhje emocionale, nuk reagon kur e th\u00ebrret n\u00eb em\u00ebr, nuk p\u00ebrcjell objekte me sy, fiksohet pas nj\u00eb objekti apo m\u00ebnyre t\u00eb loj\u00ebs. Ka edhe studime q\u00eb thon\u00eb se elementet e para mund t\u00eb v\u00ebrehen qysh n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn gjasht\u00eb muajsh. Sipas organizat\u00ebs nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr autiz\u00ebm \u201cAutism Speaks\u201d 1 n\u00eb 68 f\u00ebmij\u00eb ka autiz\u00ebm. Kjo shif\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rritje. N\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb hulumtimeve, tani dihet q\u00eb djemt\u00eb kan\u00eb 5 her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb preken nga autizmi sesa vajzat. N\u00eb Kosov\u00eb deri von\u00eb nuk ka pasur asnj\u00eb institucion q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00eb me autiz\u00ebm, e l\u00ebre m\u00eb statistika zyrtare p\u00ebr personat q\u00eb kan\u00eb autiz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Rrjedhimisht, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me autiz\u00ebm von\u00eb kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb identifikohen tek ne. N\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn an\u00eb kemi prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb i kushtojn\u00eb m\u00eb pak r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi stadeve t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe kan\u00eb shum\u00eb pak, apo nuk kan\u00eb fare njohuri lidhur me \u00e7rregullimin e spektrit te autizmit, prandaj elementet q\u00eb asociohen me autiz\u00ebm nuk i v\u00ebrejn\u00eb apo i v\u00ebrejn\u00eb shum\u00eb von\u00eb. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse i v\u00ebrejn\u00eb i injorojn\u00eb, e fshehin diagnoz\u00ebn apo nuk duan ta pranojn\u00eb at\u00eb, kryesisht p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb qasjes diskriminuese q\u00eb akoma ekziston n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb qoft\u00eb ndaj personave me nevoja t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr kemi diagnostifikimin, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb proces tejet i nd\u00ebrlikuar, sepse secili rast i autizmit \u00ebsht\u00eb i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe nuk ka teste t\u00eb gjeneralizuara mjek\u00ebsore p\u00ebr ta diagnostifikuar autizmin.<\/p>\n<p>Diagnostifikimi n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb b\u00ebhet rreth mosh\u00ebs trevje\u00e7are, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb vendet m\u00eb t\u00eb zhvilluara kjo ndodh shum\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>Sipas \u201cAutism Speaks\u201d diku 40 p\u00ebr qind t\u00eb personave me autiz\u00ebm kan\u00eb ngecje n\u00eb zhvillimin e tyre intelektual me nj\u00eb IQ prej m\u00eb pak se 70 p\u00ebr qind. Mir\u00ebpo, ka edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb shquhen p\u00ebr dhuntit\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme dhe jan\u00eb gjeni n\u00eb matematik\u00eb apo n\u00eb art, q\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjekin studimet e larta; ka autist\u00eb q\u00eb pavar\u00ebsohen dhe b\u00ebhen prind\u00ebr, por edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur. Rreth 25 p\u00ebr qind t\u00eb autist\u00ebve nuk flasin, por m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb n\u00eb forma tjera. Shumica nuk m\u00ebsohen asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb kontakt me sy, p\u00ebrderisa ka edhe nga ata q\u00eb arrijn\u00eb ta zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse pediatri gjat\u00eb vizitave t\u00eb rregullta v\u00ebren ngecje n\u00eb stadet p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse t\u00eb zhvillimit te f\u00ebmija apo elemente q\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohen me autiz\u00ebm, duhet q\u00eb prindi ta referoj\u00eb q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs. P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim t\u00eb till\u00eb, nevojitet gjithsesi konstatimi i nj\u00eb pediatri, psikologu dhe nj\u00eb logopedi. Shpeshher\u00eb njohurit\u00eb lidhur me \u00e7rregullimin e spektrit te autizmit jan\u00eb t\u00eb mang\u00ebta dhe rruga deri te diagnoza merr koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Edhe pas konstatimit t\u00eb diagnoz\u00ebs, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb financiare q\u00eb t\u2019u ofrojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve terapin\u00eb individuale dhe trajtimin q\u00eb e k\u00ebrkon autizmi gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nismat e prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar zgjedhje<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Deri von\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb nuk ka pasur institucione e qendra p\u00ebr diagnostifikim apo p\u00ebr terapi. E gjitha ndryshoi n\u00eb vitin 2008 me iniciativ\u00ebn e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne: \u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=BqGO59QY1Lk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shpresa Xhakli<\/a>\u00a0q\u00eb jeton n\u00eb SHBA, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb saj personale me djalin autik, Arbenin, u angazhua me nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve dhe psikolog\u00ebve t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb t\u00eb hapet qendra \u201cT\u00eb Bashkuar p\u00ebr Autiz\u00ebm\u201d. Fillimisht Shpresa Xhakli financoi psikolog\u00eb kosovar\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb trajnoheshin n\u00eb SHBA. Pastaj e vuri n\u00eb dispozicion \u00a0banes\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb p\u00ebr trajtimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me autiz\u00ebm. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb improvizuar shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr gjet\u00ebn shpres\u00eb. Aty p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre e kishin mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb merrnin terapit\u00eb e nevojshme. Qendra u sh\u00ebrbeu prind\u00ebrve si vendtakim p\u00ebr t\u2019u shk\u00ebmbyer e k\u00ebshilluar me terapist\u00eb por edhe me prind\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Me hapjen e qendr\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr autiz\u00ebm rrodh\u00ebn dy nisma t\u00eb reja. Prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve autist\u00eb u bashkuan dhe u riorganizuan. Me vet\u00ebfinancim, gjet\u00ebn hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn e p\u00ebrshtatshme dhe themeluan shoqat\u00ebn \u201cAutizmi\u201d. Nj\u00eb nism\u00eb nga prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahje t\u00eb familjeve tjera q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb prekur nga autizmi. Kjo qend\u00ebr me terapist\u00eb t\u00eb trajnuar, tani ka hapur deg\u00eb edhe n\u00eb Prizren, Lipjan, Pej\u00eb dhe Suherek\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb sa m\u00eb af\u00ebr prind\u00ebrve dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tjer\u00eb me sh\u00ebrbimet q\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrve\u00e7 Qendr\u00ebs \u201cAutizmi\u201d, u themelua edhe \u201cAsociacioni Nacional i Autizmit\u201d n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb. Po ashtu u arrit t\u00eb krijohet nj\u00eb klas\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb fillore t\u00eb Prishtin\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Mir\u00ebpo t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto iniciativa lind\u00ebn, u shtyn\u00eb p\u00ebrpara dhe u financuan nga vet\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, psikolog\u00ebt dhe njer\u00ebzit vullnetmir\u00eb. Asnj\u00eb nism\u00eb nuk u iniciua nga shteti dhe asnj\u00ebra nga qendrat e p\u00ebrmendura nuk g\u00ebzon p\u00ebrkrahje financiare nga institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs. Ministria e Pun\u00ebs dhe e Mir\u00ebqenies Sociale, Ministria e Sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsis\u00eb apo Komunat nuk ndajn\u00eb buxhet dhe as nuk i subvencionojn\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb qendrat p\u00ebr autiz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Ministria e Arsimit, Shkenc\u00ebs dhe e Teknologjis\u00eb deri m\u00eb tani nuk ka iniciuar hapjen e klasave tjera t\u00eb bashk\u00eblidhura me personel t\u00eb trajnuar p\u00ebr pun\u00eb me autist\u00eb. Nj\u00eb klas\u00eb e vetme n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb fillore t\u00eb kryeqytetit \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamjaftueshme! Pra, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me autiz\u00ebm privohen edhe nga e drejta e tyre e ligjshme p\u00ebr shkollim.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb kan\u00eb autiz\u00ebm terapia ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe. Vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes terapive profesionale e t\u00eb personalizuara f\u00ebmij\u00ebt autist\u00eb kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojn\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre. Me an\u00eb t\u00eb terapive arrihet q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet modifikimi i sjelljes, duke p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb bazike t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb \u00a0akademike, shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb sociale, personale dhe motorike dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb aft\u00ebsohen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj pavar\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kostoja e lart\u00eb e terapis\u00eb, mungesa e sigurimeve sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore dhe e p\u00ebrkrahjes institucionale<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sidoqoft\u00eb, t\u00eb kesh zgjedhje p\u00ebr terapi nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb e ke edhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i shfryt\u00ebzuar k\u00ebto opsione. Kostoja e terapive t\u00eb individualizuara \u2013 t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb personi me autiz\u00ebm \u2013 p\u00ebr kushtet e kosovar\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e lart\u00eb. P\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me autiz\u00ebm nuk ka asnj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrkrahjeje financiare nga shteti.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb shtetet ku ka sigurim sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, terapia individuale ABA (applied behavior analysis) mbulohet nga sigurimi sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, madje edhe nga sigurimet private t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit. Zvarritja e procesit t\u00eb krijimit t\u00eb sigurimeve sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, mungesa e p\u00ebrkrahjes institucionale dhe e qendrave p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse n\u00eb mbar\u00eb vendin, u pamund\u00ebson shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb prind\u00ebrve qasjen n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbime trajtuese p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Terapia individuale me metod\u00ebn ABA, n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej qendrave t\u00eb lartp\u00ebrmendura t\u00eb Prishtin\u00ebs, kushton 5 euro p\u00ebr or\u00eb, dhe kostoja e marrjes s\u00eb k\u00ebtij sh\u00ebrbimi, brenda muajit (n\u00ebse b\u00ebhen 20 or\u00eb terapi n\u00eb muaj), \u00ebsht\u00eb 100 euro n\u00eb muaj. Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, nj\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se mjafton.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb autist n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrues gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ky \u201cshoq\u00ebrues\u201d n\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb an\u00ebtar i familjes, duhet t\u00eb paguhet. Sipas prind\u00ebrve, shumat variojn\u00eb nga 150 deri n\u00eb 250 euro n\u00eb muaj. Ka raste kur n\u00ebnat q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pune detyrohen t\u00eb nd\u00ebrpresin pun\u00ebn dhe t\u2019i japin fund k\u00ebshtu profesionit, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrkushtohen f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Pra, pa i llogaritur dietat e ve\u00e7anta p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr terapi dhe p\u00ebr asistenc\u00eb shpenzohet nj\u00eb rrog\u00eb mesatare e Kosov\u00ebs. T\u00eb angazhuarit e hersh\u00ebm ka treguar se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i suksessh\u00ebm. Prandaj, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes terapive, k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb nes\u00ebr do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit e k\u00ebsaj shoq\u00ebrie, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb aft\u00ebsoheshin p\u00ebr jet\u00eb. E \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ata prind\u00ebr q\u00eb e kan\u00eb vullnetin p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, por nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj mund\u00ebsie financiare? E si ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb familjet, ku asnj\u00ebri prind nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pune, por q\u00eb n\u00eb disa raste jetojn\u00eb me asistenc\u00eb sociale?<\/p>\n<p>Edhe qendrat ekzistuese ditore q\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb terapi p\u00ebrballen me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi q\u00eb rrjedhin nga mungesa e p\u00ebrkrahjes institucionale, pasi ata duhet t\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb paga t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme p\u00ebr stafin, p\u00ebr trajnimet e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr psikolog\u00ebt, p\u00ebr qira dhe investimet e nevojshme n\u00eb materiale shpenzuese dhe t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Terapit\u00eb q\u00eb aplikohen me autist\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb shum\u00eb mjete pune vizuale dhe hap\u00ebsir\u00eb. P\u00ebrkrahja q\u00eb k\u00ebto qendra her\u00eb pas here marrin nga donator\u00eb t\u00eb huaj apo p\u00ebrmes projekteve t\u00eb bamir\u00ebsis\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e pamjaftueshme. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edhe funksionimi i qendrave varet nga kontributi financiar i prind\u00ebrve.<\/p>\n<p>Prind\u00ebrit ishin ata q\u00eb u detyruan ta marrin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i themeluar institucionet, t\u00eb cilat shteti nuk i krijoi p\u00ebr ta, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u ofruar f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr terapi dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Tani q\u00eb qendrat u themeluan e t\u00ebr\u00eb barra financiare vazhdon t\u00eb peshoj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb mbi supet e prind\u00ebrve. Deri kur?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E ke mbajt\u00eb foshnj\u00ebn n\u00ebnt\u00eb muaj n\u00eb bark, ke prit\u00eb me padurim ta mbash n\u00eb krah, t\u00eb njoftohesh me t\u00eb, t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh syt\u00eb e kujt ka trash\u00ebguar, t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb gjesh cilin karakter do t\u00eb ket\u00eb. Shtatzania e lindja kan\u00eb ecur mir\u00eb. Bebushi yt rritet. Ti e th\u00ebrret n\u00eb em\u00ebr, por ai t\u00eb injoron. 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