{"id":5251,"date":"2016-03-17T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2016-03-17T14:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=5251"},"modified":"2024-12-19T16:24:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T14:24:13","slug":"up-ja-dhe-sindroma-e-mashtruesit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/up-ja-dhe-sindroma-e-mashtruesit\/","title":{"rendered":"UP-ja dhe sindroma e mashtruesit"},"content":{"rendered":"
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N\u00eb terma t\u00eb zhvillimit psikoemocional t\u00eb Erik Eriksonit<\/a>, gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb programit Bachelor p\u00ebrjetohet fundi i kriz\u00ebs s\u00eb identitetit dhe fillon kriza e intimitetit. N\u00eb terma t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrkaq, vend m\u00eb sfidues sesa UP-ja p\u00ebr ta zgjidhur kriz\u00ebn e identitetit, nuk ka. Publiciteti i viteve t\u00eb fundit rreth d\u00ebshtimeve t\u00eb universitetit e ka ndrydhur vet\u00ebbesimin e student\u00ebve dhe n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre ka siguruar pasivitetin dhe heshtjen e tyre. Shum\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se ndoshta do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos shkojn\u00eb fare, sesa t\u00eb edukohen atje n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe k\u00ebto zhvillime.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Dikur pata th\u00ebn\u00eb se UP-ja p\u00ebr student\u00ebt e angazhuar \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm trampolin\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm ku krijohet nj\u00eb not\u00eb e mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb mesatare, krijohen disa lidhje, hapen horizonte t\u00eb reja dhe n\u00eb fund, aplikohet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burs\u00eb jasht\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs. Ende e besoj k\u00ebt\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se tani gjithashtu mendoj q\u00eb ky proces l\u00eb pasoja te student\u00ebt n\u00eb fjal\u00eb. Posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht e l\u00eb nj\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e cila n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e sh\u00ebndetit mendor njihet si sindroma e mashtruesit (impostor syndrom<\/a>).<\/p>\n

Personi q\u00eb p\u00ebrjeton k\u00ebt\u00eb sindrom\u00eb ndjen q\u00eb suksesi i arritur apo mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb i ka fituar, nuk i meriton v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por e \u201cka mashtruar rrug\u00ebn e vet deri aty\u201d. Disa mund t\u00eb ndihen se \u201cvet\u00ebm kan\u00eb qen\u00eb me fat\u201d dhe n\u00eb fakt, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb false dhe jomeritore.<\/p>\n

Tani, pse t\u00eb ndihemi k\u00ebshtu n\u00eb UP? Sepse i dim\u00eb parregullsit\u00eb e shumta n\u00eb proces t\u00eb regjistrimit, zhvillimit t\u00eb l\u00ebnd\u00ebve, vler\u00ebsimit, etj. Ka nj\u00eb sistem q\u00eb t\u2019i jep 5 afate p\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb nj\u00eb not\u00eb (!!!), dhe ka l\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat m\u00ebsohet nga skripte 100 faq\u00ebshe. Por n\u00eb UP ka student\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi financiare dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebvizjes p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar n\u00eb l\u00ebmit\u00eb e tyre. Edhe k\u00ebta, krejt suksesin do ta korrin p\u00ebrbrenda nj\u00eb sistemi problematik. Pyetja \u00ebsht\u00eb, a jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb suksese, n\u00ebse arrihen n\u00eb UP?<\/p>\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta mposhtur k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi (dhe derivatin e saj, disonanc\u00ebn kognitive), i bie q\u00eb do ta m\u00ebsosh skript\u00ebn 100 faq\u00ebshe, dhe gjithashtu do t\u00eb piratosh libra tjer\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb mbi l\u00ebnd\u00ebn n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u siguruar q\u00eb dija jote vlen.<\/p>\n

Por k\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta b\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm me l\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe me libra t\u00eb caktuar. Nuk mund ta b\u00ebsh me nj\u00eb universitet t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb. Nuk mund ta \u201cm\u00ebsosh\u201d UP-n\u00eb \u201c100 faq\u00ebshe\u201d dhe pastaj t\u00eb piratosh \u201cdiplom\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb universitete t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillta. K\u00ebtu shfaqet sindroma e mashtruesit. Nuk mund ta sigurosh veten (apo t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt) q\u00eb diploma q\u00eb ke marr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e vlefshme. Nuk mund t\u00eb garantosh q\u00eb nuk po mashtron. Ndoshta kur t\u00eb pun\u00ebsohesh, mund ta d\u00ebshmosh cil\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde me pun\u00eb. Por deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb arrihet.<\/p>\n

Dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje vet\u00ebm diploma. \u00c7do her\u00eb, ama bash secil\u00ebn her\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb media del nj\u00eb skandal i radh\u00ebs p\u00ebr UP-n\u00eb, qofshin edhe ato \u00eb-jat e tep\u00ebrta n\u00eb kart\u00ebvizit\u00ebn e nj\u00eb dekan(\u00eb)i, nj\u00eb studenti n\u00eb UP i thellohen dyshimet n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe kredencialet e veta, sepse i thellohet bindja n\u00eb paaft\u00ebsit\u00eb e institucionit q\u00eb ia ofron ato.<\/p>\n

E kjo pastaj \u00e7on te e keqja e madhe, te demotivimi, ku \u201cnuk ia vlen\u201d b\u00ebhet mantra e mungesave, e mosangazhimit, e dor\u00ebzimit. Sa qart\u00eb mund t\u00eb shihet profecia vet\u00ebp\u00ebrmbush\u00ebse kur p\u00ebr shkak se beson se UP-ja nxjerr\u00eb student\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, nuk angazhohesh m\u00eb dhe shnd\u00ebrrohesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb komplet \u201cvet\u00ebp\u00ebrmbush\u00ebse\u201d, kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb vazhdimisht, skandal pas skandali, e nxisin at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Jo gjithnj\u00eb student\u00ebt do t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen nga sindroma i mashtruesit. Ata n\u00eb fund do ta shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb institucion bash si trampolin\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb institucione dhe grupe tjera, ku vler\u00ebsohen, edukohen dhe trajtohen m\u00eb mir\u00eb. K;shtu, degraduesit e UP-s; disi sikur u siguruan q\u00eb ndryshimi i mundsh\u00ebm nuk do t\u00eb vij\u00eb kurr\u00eb nga student\u00ebt – ndryshimi \u201cbottom up\u201d – sepse trevjet\u00ebshi i tyre n\u00eb kampus do t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm transit.<\/p>\n

Nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb angazhim p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar praktika universitare q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pajtohen se jan\u00eb t\u00eb gabuara. Nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb dalje t\u00eb mjaftueshme as n\u00eb zgjedhje studentore. Nuk do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet llogaridh\u00ebnie. Grupe t\u00eb vogla kryengrit\u00ebse do t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb, por kultura e p\u00ebrgjithshme e student\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e ndikuar nga opinioni i jasht\u00ebm se n\u00eb UP thjesht nuk ia vlen. Dhe ndoshta \u201cNj\u00eb propozim modest p\u00ebr UP-n\u00eb\u201d b\u00ebhet mund\u00ebsi reale.<\/p>\n

Dhe sikur ajo t\u00eb b\u00ebhej reale, edhe sindroma e mashtruesit do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej e till\u00eb. Imagjinoni diplom\u00eb nga nj\u00eb universitet i mbyllur.<\/p>\n

T\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebto skandale vet\u00ebm sa ia kan\u00eb p\u00ebrforcuar bindjen shumic\u00ebs q\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja universitare n\u00eb UP \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7 nj\u00eb pauz\u00eb prej jet\u00ebs reale. Si rrjedhoj\u00eb, student\u00ebt nuk e kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, gjysma e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs ju ik\u00ebn prej duarsh derisa presin radh\u00eb t\u00eb gjata n\u00eb fotokopje dhe administrat\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Shk\u00ebndija p\u00ebr ndryshim e rektorit Zejnullahu ishte sado pak nj\u00eb shpres\u00eb. Dhe ajo p\u00ebrfundoi. Shk\u00eblqimi dhe r\u00ebnia e tij ishin shum\u00eb dometh\u00ebn\u00ebse, t\u00eb dyja episodet e saj: N\u00eb UP m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti vuan ai q\u00eb m\u00ebton t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb di\u00e7ka, dhe n\u00eb fund, d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimisht dor\u00ebzohet.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u00eb terma t\u00eb zhvillimit psikoemocional t\u00eb Erik Eriksonit, gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb programit Bachelor p\u00ebrjetohet fundi i kriz\u00ebs s\u00eb identitetit dhe fillon kriza e intimitetit. N\u00eb terma t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrkaq, vend m\u00eb sfidues sesa UP-ja p\u00ebr ta zgjidhur kriz\u00ebn e identitetit, nuk ka. Publiciteti i viteve t\u00eb fundit rreth d\u00ebshtimeve t\u00eb universitetit e ka ndrydhur vet\u00ebbesimin […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":557,"featured_media":11411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1141,1237,2152,992,2030],"ppma_author":[2151],"class_list":["post-5251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-arsimi","tag-shendeti-mendor","tag-sindroma-e-mashtruesit","tag-universiteti-i-prishtines","tag-up"],"authors":[{"term_id":2151,"user_id":557,"is_guest":0,"slug":"shege-bahtiri","display_name":"Sheg\u00eb Bahtiri","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/6O33_So1_400x400.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/6O33_So1_400x400.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Bahtiri","first_name":"Sheg\u00eb","description":"Sheg\u00eb Bahtiri \u00ebsht\u00eb Koordinatore e Programit p\u00ebr Hulumtim n\u00eb ISEE-HSP. Ajo ka nj\u00eb diplom\u00eb master n\u00eb psikologji n\u00eb Universitetin e Lundit, dhe nj\u00eb diplom\u00eb bachelor nga Universiteti i Prishtin\u00ebs. Shega ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtore p\u00ebr hulumtime politikash n\u00eb UNDP dhe m\u00eb par\u00eb ka sh\u00ebrbyer si Drejtoresh\u00eb Ekzekutive n\u00eb Sbunker."}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5251","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/557"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5251"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5251\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11449,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5251\/revisions\/11449"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5251"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5251"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5251"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=5251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}