{"id":5309,"date":"2020-03-16T14:11:57","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T12:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=5309"},"modified":"2024-10-21T14:29:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-21T12:29:48","slug":"fundi-i-marrezive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/fundi-i-marrezive\/","title":{"rendered":"Fundi i Marr\u00ebzive"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-up\">\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Qenia njer\u00ebzore e ka humbur luft\u00ebn p\u00ebrball\u00eb dy koncepteve fundamentale, q\u00eb do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishin esenca e tij, paqes dhe dashuris\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse ting\u00ebllon patetike <\/span><em style=\"font-size: 16px;\">(p\u00ebrbuz\u00ebsit sall mund t\u00eb m\u00eb gozhdojn\u00eb n\u00eb kryqin e ashp\u00ebr t\u00eb panikut bot\u00ebror),<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\u00a0mendoj s\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb koha e fundit kur ne duhet t\u00eb mos turp\u00ebrohemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb tr\u00ebndafilit dhe pranver\u00ebs. P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb momenti i zgjimit t\u00eb tyre. Ata q\u00eb nuk kuptojn\u00eb, do t\u00eb jen\u00eb aty ku kan\u00eb qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb, n\u00eb pamund\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre idiote p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb kultivimin e dijes. Njeriu duhet t\u00eb mbetet p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb gjimnazist. E kuptueshme se duke u rritur do t\u00eb kontaminohet nga paragjykimet, nga sistemet, nga rregullat e shekujve t\u00eb p\u00ebrparm\u00eb, nga tendencat e t\u00eb fuqishm\u00ebve p\u00eb t\u00eb fituar mbi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.\u00a0<\/span><em style=\"font-size: 16px;\">( Ta themi edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe at\u00eb m\u00eb z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, fitorja ju takon budallenj\u00ebve).\u00a0<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Duke u rritur mbushet me marr\u00ebzira. Dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb i shkreti b\u00ebhet kryek\u00ebput nj\u00eb barbar.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-down\">\n<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Pra \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi p\u00ebrs\u00ebri romantik dhe ta kultivojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri tjetrin. Qenia njer\u00ebzore \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm i rrethuar nga frik\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme. Vet\u00ebvrasja e domosdoshme ting\u00ebllon tep\u00ebr agresive dhe ne nuk jemi k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr t\u2019i thurrur himne vdekjes. Pretendimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar si tjetri \u00ebshte mizor dhe d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur \u00ebsht\u00eb rr\u00ebnimtare. Lakmia \u00ebsht\u00eb perandoria e cila ka pushtuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb artin e jetes\u00ebs. Ne kemi frik\u00eb, t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb guximsh\u00ebm. Ne nuk kemi nevoj\u00eb te jetojm\u00eb sipas stilit t\u00eb askujt. Pabarazia shoq\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb esenca. Ne duhet ta kemi vullnetin p\u00ebr t\u00eb varf\u00ebrit. Si\u00e7 e thash\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh sot \u00ebsht\u00eb turp, egoiz\u00ebm dhe egocentriz\u00ebm i pashoq. Pra \u00e7do gj\u00eb sot shfyt\u00ebzohet p\u00ebr ta pron\u00ebsuar paran\u00eb. Dhe k\u00ebtu nuk ka m\u00eb asnj\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptim dhe asnj\u00eb toleranc\u00eb njer\u00ebzore. \u00cbsht\u00eb koha ta ndajm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e kemi me ata q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb. Nuk kan\u00eb kuptim lumturit\u00eb e fragmentarizuara dhe gotat e cak\u00ebrruara n\u00ebp\u00ebr periferit\u00eb e kapitalist\u00ebve. Ne duhet ta kultivojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri tjetrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, duke forcuar vet\u00ebdij\u00ebn mbi bot\u00ebn dhe jo vet\u00ebdijen mbi kombet. Vet\u00ebdija mbi kombin \u00ebsht\u00eb hyrja n\u00eb luft\u00ebra t\u00eb reja. E gjith\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsia jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e vog\u00ebl dhe shihet qart\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e rrezikut.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>E kemi t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm rrezikun p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb zem\u00ebrgj\u00ebr\u00eb. Koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb rr\u00ebnuar mitet dhe koha kur profesori ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ligj\u00ebrimin e studentit. Dhe m\u00ebsuesi p\u00ebr ligj\u00ebrimin e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit. Le t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb djall\u00eb akademit\u00eb. Njeriu duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohet tek forca e pranimit dhe e mir\u00ebsis\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb budallenjt\u00eb n\u00eb duart e tyre mbajn\u00eb flamurin e dashuris\u00eb dhe paqes. Koha t\u00eb ja rr\u00ebmbejm\u00eb nga duart dhe t\u2019i falend\u00ebrojm\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimin q\u00eb na kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Koha p\u00ebr ta rr\u00ebnuar ekzistenc\u00ebn e atyre q\u00eb e kan\u00eb n\u00eb duar realitetin. E atyre q\u00eb e form\u00ebsojn\u00eb realitetin. Koha kur ekzistenca e tyre nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb argument por argument \u00ebsht\u00eb vullneti. Kapitalizmi na ka zhveshur nga dinjiteti dhe e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb paqen e dashurin\u00eb t\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme duke i tallur ata dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht duke shtuar pamund\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rezistuar. Ne kemi humbur koh\u00ebn p\u00ebr pasionet tona dhe jemi sh\u00ebndrruar n\u00eb makineri luftarake. Nuk shohim asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pos asaj q\u00eb na sh\u00ebrben p\u00ebr ta shtyr\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb dit\u00eb. Hakmarrja dhe natyra, na fusin tyt\u00ebn e pushk\u00ebs n\u00eb goj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Kundera thot\u00eb ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme gjithmon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Pra \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7asti i fundit t\u00eb ballafaqohemi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rikthimi n\u00eb tok\u00ebn e romantizmit dhe idealeve. P\u00ebrndryshe lumi i madh i post-marr\u00ebzive do t\u00eb na fshij\u00eb far\u00ebn. Dhe njeriu q\u00eb q\u00ebndron fitimtar. I vet\u00ebm. Oh, njer\u00ebz \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kaktus n\u00eb ferr.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"news-right\">\n<div class=\"post\">\n<p class=\"author\">\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Qenia njer\u00ebzore e ka humbur luft\u00ebn p\u00ebrball\u00eb dy koncepteve fundamentale, q\u00eb do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishin esenca e tij, paqes dhe dashuris\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse ting\u00ebllon patetike (p\u00ebrbuz\u00ebsit sall mund t\u00eb m\u00eb gozhdojn\u00eb n\u00eb kryqin e ashp\u00ebr t\u00eb panikut bot\u00ebror),\u00a0mendoj s\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb koha e fundit kur ne duhet t\u00eb mos turp\u00ebrohemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb tr\u00ebndafilit dhe pranver\u00ebs. P\u00ebr ata [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":511,"featured_media":8396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[1403],"class_list":["post-5309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion"],"authors":[{"term_id":1403,"user_id":511,"is_guest":0,"slug":"shpetim-selmani","display_name":"Shp\u00ebtim Selmani","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/shpetim-selmani.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/shpetim-selmani.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Selmani","first_name":"Shp\u00ebtim","description":"Shp\u00ebtim Selmani \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkrimtar dhe aktor kosovar. Ka studiuar n\u00eb Universitetin e Prishtin\u00ebs. 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