{"id":5966,"date":"2022-02-09T13:49:27","date_gmt":"2022-02-09T11:49:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=5966"},"modified":"2024-10-17T13:59:27","modified_gmt":"2024-10-17T11:59:27","slug":"cna-meson-rasti-i-embles-se-embel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/opinion\/cna-meson-rasti-i-embles-se-embel\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7\u2019na m\u00ebson rasti i \u00cbmbl\u00ebs s\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"news-left\">\n<p>N\u00eb \u00e7do rast kur ndodh\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakont\u00eb, shoq\u00ebria duhet t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb m\u00ebsime, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara drejt nj\u00eb shkalle m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillimit dhe vet\u00ebdijes.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe rast m\u00eb urgjent e m\u00eb prek\u00ebs se k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb \u00cbmbla Ademit nga Gostivari, sidomos ne q\u00eb jemi prind\u00ebr dhe e dim\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhembjen p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, nuk kemi pas\u00eb q\u00eb sa e sa koh\u00eb. Ajo qenka e lindur me nj\u00eb kromozom m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, gjendje q\u00eb ndryshe njihet me emrin sindromi i Daunit (simbas mjekut Gjon Langdon Daun [John Langdon Down], q\u00eb e p\u00ebrshkroi i pari si gjendje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb mendore), dhe prind\u00ebrit e shkoll\u00ebs t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e vijon paskan k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb peticioni q\u00eb t\u00eb ndahet prej f\u00ebmijve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb klas\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb af\u00ebr saj! Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos duhen ta shofin!<\/p>\n<p>Dhe qe \u00e7ka m\u00ebsuam, ose \u00e7ka jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb, nga ky rast?<\/p>\n<p><strong>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb urrejn\u00eb.<\/strong>\u00a0Si n\u00eb raste t\u00eb dallimit n\u00eb rraca, ashtu edhe n\u00eb raste tjer\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, pa nxitje ose cytje paraprake nga m\u00eb t\u00eb vjetrit, pra edhe prind\u00ebrit, shoq\u00ebrohen dhe luajn\u00eb me f\u00ebmij t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe nuk shohin kurrfar\u00eb pengese n\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00ebs, gjuh\u00eb, apo gjendje trupore ose mendore, t\u00eb f\u00ebmijve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. T\u00eb rriturit jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb ua mbjellin urrejtjen ose edhe i largojn\u00eb nga ata f\u00ebmij q\u00eb u pengojn\u00eb atyre vet \u2014 t\u00eb rriturve. T\u00eb rriturit, prap, jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb, kur din\u00eb dhe duan, ua kthejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve menden drejt dhe mbar\u00eb, e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vazhdojn\u00eb loj\u00ebn dhe m\u00ebsimin s\u00eb bashku, pa pik\u00eb problemi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prind\u00ebrit gjithmon\u00eb e kan\u00eb fajin<\/strong>\u00a0kur te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shfaqet ndonj\u00eb lloj diskriminimi. Dhe jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shak se e fillojn\u00eb, po edhe se, n\u00ebse ka filluar nga ndokush tjet\u00ebr, nuk i ulin f\u00ebmijt e tyre q\u00eb t&#8217;ua shpjegojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat si duhet. Q\u00eb,<a href=\"https:\/\/sbunker.net\/op-ed\/91292\/cna-meson-rasti-i-embles-se-embel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00a0p.sh<\/a>., nj\u00eb f\u00ebmi si \u00cbmbla nuk vlen m\u00eb pak p\u00ebr shkak se \u00ebsht\u00eb e lindur ndryshe, dhe q\u00eb asaj duhet t&#8217;i dhurohen, pa dallim, kujdesi dhe dashuria q\u00eb u dhurohen t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmijve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ose edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb se aq. Sepse p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr dallimit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl anatomik q\u00eb mund ta ket\u00eb prej f\u00ebmijve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ajo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shoqe shk\u00eblqyese dhe person shembullor, e dashur nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb poata q\u00eb, kur t\u00eb shohin \u00e7ift t\u00eb nj\u00eb gjinie, n\u00eb p\u00ebrqafim apo puthje, tmerrohen, sepse nuk din\u00eb si (ose nuk duan, ose nuk i len primitivizmi) t&#8217;ua shpjegojn\u00eb f\u00ebmijve t\u00eb vet\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb: q\u00eb kur dy veta puthen, ajo don t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ndjejn\u00eb dashuri, njeri ndaj tjetrit. Aq!<\/p>\n<p>Prind\u00ebrit, pra, jan\u00eb prap ata q\u00eb, n\u00eb rastin m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar, i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb mbrapsht f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, e n\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb butin, nuk q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb ball\u00eb t\u00eb detyr\u00ebs kryesore t\u00eb prindit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t&#8217;i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mbar\u00eb mbi sindromin Daun ose orientimin seksual, q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhur, por t\u00eb lindur. Q\u00eb s&#8217;mund t\u00eb ndryshohen dhe, si t\u00eb till\u00eb \u2014 sikurse gjendja e \u00cbmbl\u00ebs, por edhe orientimi seksual i njer\u00ebzve \u2014 duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafohen, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahen, dhe t\u00eb ndihmohen.<\/p>\n<p>E ndoshta m\u00ebsimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe me dobin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, sidomos p\u00ebr nacionalist\u00ebt (se shovenist\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb pam\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm, pra s&#8217;pritet q\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb), \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb rasti i \u00cbmbl\u00ebs na m\u00ebson se\u00a0<strong>njer\u00ebzit e t\u00ebr\u00eb bot\u00ebs ndahen n\u00eb dy lloje t\u00eb vet\u00ebm: t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lig\u00eb<\/strong>. Se derisa disa shqiptarizij zg\u00ebrdhihen me \u00abo, sa mir\u00eb me qen\u00eb shqiptar!\u00bb, n\u00eb t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn koh\u00eb q\u00eb e l\u00ebndojn\u00eb p\u00ebr vdekje \u00cbmbl\u00ebn dhe familjen e saj, nj\u00eb armat\u00eb e fqijve t\u00eb tyre maqedonas shpreh\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahje me fjal\u00ebt ma t\u00eb bukura dhe ma t\u00eb \u00ebmbla p\u00ebr \u00cbmbl\u00ebn, p\u00ebr t&#8217;u pri p\u00ebrfundimisht edhe prej vet kryetarit t\u00eb shtetit, z. Pendarovski, q\u00eb ec\u00eb dor\u00eb p\u00ebr dore me princesh\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb p\u00ebr shkoll\u00eb. Populliz\u00ebm? Edhe le t\u00eb jet\u00eb (q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk e besoj t\u00eb jet\u00eb, dhe m\u00eb duket hipokrizi edhe t\u00eb mendohet, e sidomos prej atyre q\u00eb vet hesht\u00ebn dhe nuk vepruan), por kujt nuk i duket mehlem p\u00ebr varr\u00eb t\u00eb familjes s\u00eb \u00cbmbl\u00ebs, as gjesti i diskriminimit t\u00eb saj sigurisht nuk i ka penguar.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr mua ky m\u00ebsimi i fundit ishte v\u00ebrtetim i asaj q\u00eb e them dhe mendoj gjithmon\u00eb: m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta kesh nj\u00eb mik fisnik, se nj\u00eb vlla t\u00eb posht\u00ebr!<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00eb \u00e7do rast kur ndodh\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakont\u00eb, shoq\u00ebria duhet t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb m\u00ebsime, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara drejt nj\u00eb shkalle m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillimit dhe vet\u00ebdijes. Dhe rast m\u00eb urgjent e m\u00eb prek\u00ebs se k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb \u00cbmbla Ademit nga Gostivari, sidomos ne q\u00eb jemi prind\u00ebr dhe e dim\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhembjen p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":509,"featured_media":8396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1391,1175,991,1390],"ppma_author":[1389],"class_list":["post-5966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-diskriminimi","tag-femijet","tag-shoqeria","tag-urrejtja"],"authors":[{"term_id":1389,"user_id":509,"is_guest":0,"slug":"florent-rizvanolli","display_name":"Florent Rizvanolli","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/florenti-e1729166331238.jpg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/florenti-e1729166331238.jpg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Rizvanolli","first_name":"Florent","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/509"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5966"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8555,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966\/revisions\/8555"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5966"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=5966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}