{"id":12765,"date":"2025-05-15T13:50:31","date_gmt":"2025-05-15T11:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=12765"},"modified":"2025-05-15T14:04:29","modified_gmt":"2025-05-15T12:04:29","slug":"problemi-i-kujteses-selektive-ne-ballkan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/opinion\/problemi-i-kujteses-selektive-ne-ballkan\/","title":{"rendered":"Problemi i kujtes\u00ebs selektive n\u00eb Ballkan"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gjat\u00eb fluturimit p\u00ebr Frankfurt t\u00eb Gjermanis\u00eb, u ula pran\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb sapodiplomuari nga qyteti i Novi Sadit. Pasi shk\u00ebmbyem ca fjal\u00eb, m\u00eb tregoi se po migronte n\u00eb Gjermani, n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb jete m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Pas pak minutave, biseda mori ton m\u00eb serioz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Para se t\u00eb niste nj\u00eb monolog plot pasion rreth padrejt\u00ebsive historike q\u00eb edhe sot e form\u00ebsojn\u00eb Ballkanin, tha me vendosm\u00ebri: <\/span>\u201cDisa gj\u00ebra nuk mund t\u00eb harrohen\u201d<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Ai foli me vendosm\u00ebri dhe moskok\u00eb\u00e7arje, i bindur se po ndante njohuri t\u00eb zakonshme. Papritmas ndaloi, kur hapi \u00ebmb\u00eblsir\u00ebn q\u00eb na dhan\u00eb, duke folur p\u00ebr cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin seriozitet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nuk mund t\u00eb mos e v\u00ebreja ironin\u00eb e monologut t\u00eb tij. Ai foli me bindje t\u00eb madhe, n\u00eb nj\u00eb fluturim p\u00ebr n\u00eb Gjermani, vend ky q\u00eb dikur ishte p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr dhimbje t\u00eb pamas\u00eb, shkat\u00ebrrime dhe vrasje t\u00eb miliona njer\u00ebzve. Pa p\u00ebrmendur se, gjat\u00eb Luft\u00ebs s\u00eb Dyt\u00eb Bot\u00ebrore, Gjermania kishte pushtuar Serbin\u00eb, duke i pasur atje pes\u00eb <\/span>kampe<\/span><\/a> t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrimit dhe duke kryer akte gjenocidale.  <\/span><\/h5>\n
Sidoqoft\u00eb, k\u00ebto histori nuk i kishte marr\u00eb me vete, nd\u00ebrsa po fillonte nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re n\u00eb Gjermani.\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n

Kjo s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e pazakont\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse ting\u00ebllon ironike. N\u00eb regjionin e Ballkanit, njer\u00ebzit migrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb vende me t\u00eb cilat ndajn\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar t\u00eb paqart\u00eb.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Llogaritet se midis 400,000 deri 800,000 <\/span>serb\u00eb<\/span><\/a> momentalisht jetojn\u00eb dhe punojn\u00eb n\u00eb Gjermani. Af\u00ebrsisht 500,000 <\/span>shqiptar\u00eb<\/span><\/a> jan\u00eb t\u00eb vendosur n\u00eb Itali, shtet ky q\u00eb dikur n\u00eb atdheun e tyre krijoi shtetin kukull fashist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ballkanasit, kur k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb mund\u00ebsi n\u00eb Gjermani ose Itali, shfaqin nj\u00eb pragmatiz\u00ebm t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebt q\u00eb, kur jan\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje fqinj\u00ebt, deklarojn\u00eb se: \u201c<\/span>Disa gj\u00ebra nuk mund t\u00eb harrohen<\/span><\/i>\u201d, e gjejn\u00eb disi nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u pajtuar me ish-pushtuesit europian\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmeje m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. <\/span><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Kontradikta m\u00eb e thell\u00eb politike e Ballkanit q\u00ebndron te p\u00ebrdorimi selektiv i padrejt\u00ebsive historike: kur \u00ebsht\u00eb politikisht e p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebrmendet trauma, por m\u00ebnjanohet p\u00ebrball\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive ekonomike.<\/span><\/h5>\n
Teksa historia p\u00ebrdoret si arm\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7ar\u00ebse nga elitat politike, mungesa e mund\u00ebsive i nxit m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt e m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuarit e rajonit t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme diku tjet\u00ebr.\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n

N\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, ku serb\u00ebt dhe shqiptar\u00ebt kan\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetuar p\u00ebr shekuj me radh\u00eb, udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsit politik\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb selektive e shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb traum\u00ebn historike p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushqyer narrativa nacionaliste. Ata k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulin se pajtimi nuk mund t\u00eb arrihet p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb krimeve t\u00eb pazgjidhura t\u00eb s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs. E t\u00ebr\u00eb kjo, teksa i p\u00ebrdorin k\u00ebto ndarje p\u00ebr ta larguar v\u00ebmendjen nga korrupsioni i p\u00ebrhapur, qeverisja e dob\u00ebt dhe mungesa e llogaridh\u00ebnies.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb paarsyeshme shum\u00eb prej padrejt\u00ebsive historike q\u00eb shprehen nga ballkanasit. Ato burojn\u00eb nga ngjarje thell\u00ebsisht traumatike q\u00eb kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb zgjasin dhe kan\u00eb ndikuar shum\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00ebsimin e identiteteve kolektive t\u00eb rajonit. Kujtimet e luft\u00ebs, zhvendosjes dhe shtypjes sistematike, jan\u00eb pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e t\u00eb kuptuarit t\u00eb vetes nga komunitetet dhe t\u00eb raportit me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Problemi i kujtes\u00ebs selektive nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb me vet\u00ebdije. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjedhje e jona q\u00eb fqinj\u00ebt t\u2019i shohim p\u00ebrmes optik\u00ebs mitike-historike, teksa pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb bot\u00ebs p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb qasjeje m\u00eb realiste \u2013 por duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb zgjedhje p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e k\u00ebtij gabimi logjik.\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n

Ndon\u00ebse konflikti i fundit n\u00eb ish-Jugosllavi \u00ebsht\u00eb deri diku jo i larg\u00ebt, kujtesa kolektive e Ballkanit p\u00ebrfshin nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tejkalimi i padrejt\u00ebsive historike do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikuarit e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb: disa nuk do ta tejkalojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb nacionalizmin, por njeriu mund t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetoj\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht me shumic\u00ebn. Aft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr tejkalimin e k\u00ebtyre padrejt\u00ebsive n\u00eb vende t\u00eb tjera m\u00eb bind q\u00eb Ballkani mund t\u2019i tejkaloj\u00eb k\u00ebto edhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. N\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb klim\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme politike p\u00ebr kultivimin e toleranc\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u2013 por, edhe shum\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gjat\u00eb fluturimit p\u00ebr Frankfurt t\u00eb Gjermanis\u00eb, u ula pran\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb sapodiplomuari nga qyteti i Novi Sadit. Pasi shk\u00ebmbyem ca fjal\u00eb, m\u00eb tregoi se po migronte n\u00eb Gjermani, n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb jete m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Pas pak minutave, biseda mori ton m\u00eb serioz.\u00a0 Para se t\u00eb niste nj\u00eb monolog plot pasion rreth padrejt\u00ebsive historike […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":643,"featured_media":10426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[988,974,624,2500],"ppma_author":[2433],"class_list":["post-12765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-ballkani-perendimor","tag-gjermani","tag-kryesore","tag-lufta-e-dyte-boterore"],"authors":[{"term_id":2433,"user_id":643,"is_guest":0,"slug":"lazar-tripinovic","display_name":"Lazar Tripinovi\u0107","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-01-22-at-15.13.30.jpeg","url2x":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-01-22-at-15.13.30.jpeg"},"user_url":"","last_name":"Tripinovi\u0107","first_name":"Lazar","description":"Lazar was born and raised in Belgrade, Serbia. He received his education in a bilingual grammar school in his hometown, before moving to an international school in Tanzania. He is pursuing a double major in International Affairs and French Studies, with a minor in Political Economy at Lewis & Clark College. Expatriation from a young age provided him with a dynamic education and ensured a cross-cultural perspective. He is currently studying parallely at Middleburry Cameroon and Universit\u00e9 catholique d\u2019Afrique centrale in Yaound\u00e9, Cameroon."}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12765","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/643"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12765"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12765\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12773,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12765\/revisions\/12773"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10426"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12765"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=12765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}