{"id":3574,"date":"2017-05-24T11:33:47","date_gmt":"2017-05-24T09:33:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/?p=3574"},"modified":"2025-01-16T11:42:57","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T09:42:57","slug":"ferma-e-kafsheve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/opinion\/ferma-e-kafsheve\/","title":{"rendered":"Ferma e kafsh\u00ebve"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Un\u00eb jam e llastuar. Nuk di as kur dhe as si jam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, por e di se jam e llastuar. Dhe jo si “f\u00ebmija i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur”, e as si studentja nga provinca, por si p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesja e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile, apo e organizatave joqeveritare. E llastuar sepse mund t\u00eb punoj at\u00eb q\u00eb dua, e llastuar sepse e kam orarin e pun\u00ebs dhe pushimet sipas qejfit, dhe mbi t\u00eb gjithat, e llastuar sepse mendoj se jam “m\u00eb e mir\u00eb” se ju. O, jam aq “m\u00eb e mir\u00eb” se ju saq\u00eb nuk di nga t’ia filloj. Kam p\u00ebrfunduar studimet e nivelit master si nj\u00eb prej studenteve t\u00eb gjenerat\u00ebs dhe jam duke punuar n\u00eb masterin e dyt\u00eb jasht\u00eb vendit me burs\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb, jam liberale, derisa ju jeni konservativ\u00eb dhe primitiv\u00eb; jam vegjetariane, derisa ju hani kafsh\u00eb t\u00eb vdekura; jam ateiste, derisa ju besoni se n\u00eb qiell \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person imagjinar i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb aty p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduare (ku ju, t\u00eb mirremi vesh, do ta nxjerrni an\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb). Ju ting\u00ebllon kjo si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e keni d\u00ebgjuar m\u00eb par\u00eb? Ju ting\u00ebllon kjo si nj\u00eb grumbull personash “t\u00eb sektorit t\u00eb tret\u00eb” t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb shum\u00eb “m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb” se ju, derisa ju thon\u00eb se ata jan\u00eb aty p\u00ebr ju dhe se interesat e tyre jan\u00eb interesat tuaj?<\/p>\n

Kur nisa t\u00eb punoj p\u00ebr organizatat joqeveritare, fillova me nj\u00eb imazh jodjall\u00ebzor imagjinaro-idealist n\u00eb kok\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb po m\u00eb prisnin ve\u00e7 mua q\u00eb ta shp\u00ebtoja jet\u00ebn. Epo mir\u00eb, mbase jo gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, por t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, ballkanike. Pes\u00eb vjet m\u00eb von\u00eb, kuptova se i ashtuquajturi sektori i tret\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb poashtu i ndyr\u00eb si \u00e7do sektor tjet\u00ebr, e m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti si ai p\u00ebr opozit\u00ebn e t\u00eb cilit pozicionohet – pra ai politik. Dhe at\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs s\u00eb brendshme t\u00eb veprimtaris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, por p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimit t\u00eb rrejsh\u00ebm n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb cilit nd\u00ebrton imazhin dhe n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb cilit m\u00eb von\u00eb k\u00ebrkon dhe fiton pozit\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme socio-politike.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesit e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile shpesh publikisht marrin q\u00ebndrime me t\u00eb cilat shumica e qytetar\u00ebve zor se mund t\u00eb identifikohen apo madje t’i kuptojn\u00eb. Themi se nevojiten reformat, para s\u00eb gjithash n\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb pajtimit t\u00eb komuniteteve, dhe se ata jan\u00eb “njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ne po i presim”, e krejt rast\u00ebsisht fusim nganj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim nacionalist ku e zgjidhim t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn duke e kuantifikuar m\u00eb intimen – emocionet njer\u00ebzore, numrin e viktimave, apo u themi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve se jan\u00eb vetjak\u00eb. Themi se e mb\u00ebshtesim komunitetin LGBT dhe t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e tyre p\u00ebr martes\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb, e n\u00eb bisedat private na shp\u00ebton “ve\u00e7 f\u00ebmija im t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb AJO”. Flasim p\u00ebr toleranc\u00ebn fetare e urinojm\u00eb mbi shenjt\u00ebrit\u00eb e “huaja” dhe i p\u00ebrqeshim praktikat e “huaja” fetare si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb ushqimi apo veshmbathja.\u00a0 Themi se luftojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut, e n\u00eb fakt luftojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e serb\u00ebve\/shqiptar\u00ebve, derisa komunitetet tjera nuk na interesojn\u00eb, sepse nuk jan\u00eb “ne”.<\/p>\n

Me hipokrizin\u00eb dhe dyfytyr\u00ebsin\u00eb e till\u00eb ne ende presim t’i sjellim komunitetet t\u00eb cilat i “p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojm\u00eb” deri te vendi tek i cili as ne nuk kemi arritur. Deri te vendi i s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs. Deri te vendi i pranimit t\u00eb vetvetes s\u00eb nj\u00ebmendt\u00eb, e jo imagjinare. Jo vetvetes imagjinare t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatur dhe t\u00eb form\u00ebsuar sipas pritjeve t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve – sistemit arsimor, sektorit civil, bashk\u00ebsis\u00eb nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare – e cila e ka luajtur rolin aq mir\u00eb, saq\u00eb maska gati se nuk v\u00ebrehet. Sepse ai soji jon\u00eb i zhveshur, i sinqert\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb hi\u00e7 m\u00eb i mir\u00eb se soji juaj i sinqert\u00eb, dhe \u00e7ka na e jep t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn q\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht ne t\u00eb jemi ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt do t\u00eb ju p\u00ebrndritin dhe nxjerrin n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e faljes, toleranc\u00ebs dhe dashuris\u00eb? T\u00eb drejt\u00ebn do ta fitojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse n\u00eb vend se ta g\u00ebnjejm\u00eb veten dhe juve se jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu, t\u00eb dalim nga roli i t\u00eb rr\u00ebfyesit t\u00eb gjith\u00ebditur i cili e ballkanizon vetveten, dhe t’jua k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb dor\u00ebn, q\u00eb bashk\u00ebrisht ta gjejm\u00eb rrug\u00ebdaljen nga terri.<\/p>\n

P.S.: Me k\u00ebt\u00eb tekst nuk d\u00ebshiroj t\u00eb them se t\u00eb gjitha organizatat joqeveritare, apo t\u00eb gjitha projektet e organizatave joqeveritare jan\u00eb “investimi i hu\u00e7ur”, por e ndiej nevoj\u00ebn ta shkundi veten, gjegj\u00ebsisht neve, sepse vet\u00ebm ashtu mund t’ju kthehemi atyre idealeve dhe vlerave p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat edhe kemi filluar t\u00eb merremi me k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Un\u00eb jam e llastuar. Nuk di as kur dhe as si jam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, por e di se jam e llastuar. Dhe jo si “f\u00ebmija i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur”, e as si studentja nga provinca, por si p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesja e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile, apo e organizatave joqeveritare. E llastuar sepse mund t\u00eb punoj at\u00eb q\u00eb dua, e llastuar sepse […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":230,"featured_media":12003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[2329,2328],"ppma_author":[2337],"class_list":["post-3574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-artikull","tag-shkrim"],"authors":[{"term_id":2337,"user_id":230,"is_guest":0,"slug":"dina-milovanovic","display_name":"Dina Milovanovic","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b6e075b4b3957d502f8fe4906d314d1cf6ceb346dcfe52015c5c5d7dc3958841?s=96&d=mm&r=g","user_url":"","last_name":"Milovanovic","first_name":"Dina","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3574","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/230"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3574"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3574\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12089,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3574\/revisions\/12089"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3574"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3574"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3574"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbunker.org\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=3574"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}